Advice for being in a new city. Hard to entre bars or clubs.

pdx216 · 2020-02-06T05:52:03+00:00

Going out alone is one of the best experiences. I still think it’s scary as shit on the surface but once I commit to going out, I usually have an awesome time.

My tips: - socialize with everyone the moment you walk out your door. Uber driver, people walking by. Just say hello. - have 2-3 bars you want to check out. Sometimes the vibe just isn’t great at one, don’t get discouraged, finish your drink and move on. - You can open anyone at a bar. “Hey man I like your shirt” or just “what’s up man”. If you are putting out good energy, people will want to be around you - don’t look at your phone. Just scan the room with a smirk and people watch

I’m by NO means an expert but I’ve been going out by myself recently and love the feeling. Obviously if you see a woman you are attracted too, approach her. But don’t feel crippled like you have too. Your mindset should be that you are a social person looking to have a good time.

Look up other people’s posts about going out solo as well. Lots of great FR’s in this sub. Cheers!

Insaneflirt_max · 2020-02-06T07:17:00+00:00

I find it weird to enter bars alone.

It's not. Now gooo

quinnmcd · 2020-02-06T13:35:05+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Title	Advice for being in a new city. Hard to entre bars or clubs.
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Date	February 6, 2020 5:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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