I've had a girlfriend for the last couple months and I've grown to really like her. I was spinning a couple different plates and I picked her because she had a lot of feminine traits. She kind and caring, actually taking care of me while I was blackout drunk once. It impressed me. So we started dating and I've applied all the concepts. I play dread every now and then, stay stoic and tease her a lot. I make decisions for our relationship, I am the leader and let her be feminine.

Today she unintentionally did something that pissed me off. I stayed stoic and only gave her shit about it. I did not show any anger. After we interacted, I felt so much better. She can affect my mood and she has power over me. I can only assume this is what oneitis is and I hate it. What she does should not affect me like that. Any advise? She hasn't done anything wrong and does not warrant any kind of punishment of dread or anything. It's about me.