Another field report. I feel like I'm getting the hang of some things but I'm still so slow to escalate from kino to the kiss.

Tinder date. Biker chick in her early 40s. Japanese but highly Americanized. I'm an early 30s American, for reference. Since she was so Americanized the text banter when setting up the date was fun and had a really good vibe. Dates always go well when the woman hugs you at the first meeting; probably because of the strong text banter beforehand. Sadly I am rarely able to create such a good impression on women because they either don't get my humor or they're just plain boring people who do nothing, so I have no way to tease them. We played billiards and darts for a couple hours. She already knew how to play so I couldn't use my excuse of teaching techniques to initiate kino, but she was the "touchy friendly" type so I didn't have to do a whole lot. Really refreshing after dealing with so many passive women who expect you do do 98% of the touching and only give 2% back.

Since I didn't have to do a whole lot on the kino side, I focused on just having fun. Not much innuendo, brief mentions of sexual situations in conversation, but really mild. Pranked her by sneaking darts into her hoodie. Whenever she caught me she'd laugh and grab my cheeks. She'd prank me back. A little tickling, just goofing around.

"Do you have to be anywhere tonight?" Japanese girl hint that she might want you to pound her. "Where should we go next?" Another Japanese girl hint that she might want you to pound her. Went to a wine bar because I wanted to get more kino going. Counter seats. Almost empty place. While chatting I put my arm around her chair and on her back. She put her hand really high on my inner thigh and kept it there. Okay now we're getting somewhere.

23:30, the restaurant is kicking everyone out. "Where should we go next." That hint again, but I feel like I went too slow and we decided to leave. Her train wasn't running but we met in a spot that was a 40-minute walk from both our places, just opposite directions. Except I didn't realize it was opposite directions so I opted to walk with her until wherever I thought the roads would split. When we realised I was going the wrong direction we stopped, and she gave a parting hug. But I remembered the last time I managed to turn that hug into a kiss, and did it again. The moment I added a little bit of tongue she got aggressive and we just made out in the street. When I squeezed her ass she moaned, and I realized I could salvage this since neither of us live too far away. I asked her, "Let's head back to the station area and find a place to chill for a couple hours."

Straight to a janky love hotel. Boy did she have some pent-up energy......the alcohol fucked me up though and I couldn't climax. I still made sure she had a good night. Checked out at 2am and we took taxis back to our individual homes.

Takeaways

  • That felt too easy. Probably because she actually put in some effort unlike a lot of the other women I've met.
  • I'm still to damn slow. I rely on that parting hug for the kiss because we're physically close at that moment, as opposed to sitting at a bar counter where there's still some distance, or in many other cases lots of other people literally right next to us.
  • Considering the age gap and our circumstances, this has FWB potential, but I don't really know how to pursue that. Last time I almost had an FWB I stayed quiet and she came back to me whenever she got horny. This time....don't know. She texted me last night when she got home and said thanks for the fun. I said "me too" which was a stupid, hasty answer....guess I should have texted something more along the lines of "hit me up next time you want to have some fun" or whatever. Don't particularly care either way since she was pretty average.

Anyway, next time.....need to get that kiss sooner, and bounce around sooner instead of spending 3 hours in a pool hall. Have two more Tinder dates lined up for next weekend.