Questions for people who used to get exhausted socializing/partying in college chasing girls. How did you get over your (social) stamina issues? Aside from settling down with a GF (an obvious answer)

Myinvalidbunbury · 2020-03-02T00:17:59+00:00

I've found that getting out often is important but dammit, leave yourself some time for yourself. Recharge. Don't always just go out if you're utterly exhausted. Find interests that are more something you can enjoy by yourself. Build yourself up and lead an interesting life outside of chasing women. You'll be more attractive. I've had some amazing nights unfold the night after I decided to go straight home and go to sleep early instead of attempting to go out for the umpteenth night in a row.

Life is a marathon; not a sprint.

Insaneflirt_max · 2020-03-03T10:12:23+00:00

Stop chasing, let her time to invest, let her talk. It will save so much energy if you don't force yourself to fill in the blanks in the convo all the time. Learn to be quiet.

Don't force yourself to fake energy if you don't have it, the lil bit that you have will disappear even faster.

Don't be fooled, once you get a roster it's even more draining because now you have to meet them all and give them (hopefully good) sex.

Don't drink/smoke. I stopped both when I noticed it was litteraly sucking my energy and preventing me to practice game hard.

Eat healthy and exercise (normie advice).

Sleep well. If you're tired don't go out. There is no fear of missing out, there is an endless stream of fridays, saturdays and hot girls.

bytheninedivines · 2020-03-02T02:25:33+00:00

Even the most social people you see on social media need time to recharge

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