How to have casual sex if you're not into nightclubs?

smgtn · 2020-03-06T16:21:08+00:00

So Tinder and daygame are both banned in your country?

devbev · 2020-03-06T16:47:00+00:00

Your 3 Top Sources of Casual Sex (without parties or nightclubs):

The Bar / Random Social Enviros (Total Strangers)

I know you said not a nightclub, but this could be some normal bar, a concert, some other kind of event, etc.

Alcohol being involved will probably increases your chances a lot as you'll likely be less anxious.

Typically these hookups tend to be something like one of the following:

You chat, have drinks, and get her number, and later via texting she invites you over or asks to come over to your place, or you successfully meet her out again and/or close to get her back to your place.
You chat, have drinks, and go on an insta-date -- meaning you go from wherever you started to another venue, another activity, another place, etc. Then you end up at your place or hers.

You're going to want to be open to approaching, as most women won't approach you.

Dating Apps - Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid, you name it. (Total Strangers)

Girls hook up with guys on all of them. Not all girls hookup, and not all girls hookup on dating apps. But girls do hookup, and you can find them here. Typically dating app hookups tend to be something like one of the following:

You go out on a date and then have sex (basic, obviously)
You message for anywhere from minutes to days, and the girl ends up basically inviting you to hookup - "wanna come over" or "can I come over" or often something less obvious and thinly veiled like "Let's watch Netflix/Hulu/Disney+ / <particular show/movie>"

Friend Group Social Situations / Friends with Benefits (Not Total Strangers)

You meet a girl through mutual friends in a social situation you were actually invited to (not a party, bar, club). You build chemistry, and eventually escalate it to casual sex if that's what she also wants.

The nice thing about situations like this involving at least some part of your Friend Group is that you're at least not having sex with a total stranger -- although there are definitely people who'd prefer that.

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Questions?

excentrik-art · 2020-03-06T16:29:14+00:00

Organize events in your area, regarding any topic you like. People - men and women included - will arrive eventually, if you keep it going and event will have success and good name. There you will be socially highest person and if you will make right moves, and indicate out - casual sex only - vibe, girls will come

seducerinnj · 2020-03-07T00:28:30+00:00

Approach anywhere!. Bookstore, street, doesn't matter. Practice talking to everyone and having situational openers. Also, practice in the mirror.

maddieenoellee · 2020-03-06T17:29:20+00:00

Okay this somewhat pertains to the question but do you think it’s possible to meet sugar daddies at the clubs or like do you think they would be there

Title	How to have casual sex if you're not into nightclubs?
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Date	March 6, 2020 4:13 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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