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[–]ilikepie145 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Why did you just quit talking to her to test her?
[–]deliriantseed[S] -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes exactly.
[–]Philgob2 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Are you stupid?
We all have to invest a bit more when the relation is just starting... You haven’t had one date with her and you expect her to reach out to you? Unless your value is incredible, you’re just a random fish in the ocean
[–]deliriantseed[S] -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then a day later the pic of her and that guy showed up.
[–]DrixlRey 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Well, she doesn't owe you anything just because you texted her right? Why couldn't she talk to other guys? Your mindset should be, take action now, because she might go with someone else. If she chooses someone else, that's her loss.
[–]deliriantseed[S] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes of course she doesn’t owe me anything. And yes she totally can ! I guess that’s just the guy in me. It just felt as if she’s kinda into me so why wouldn’t she mention that to me. I made my intentions pretty clear I felt. Thanks for the advice!
[–]DrixlRey 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She might be interested in you both, she wouldn't mention it to you that might hurt your ego come off as rude, many reasons. Best not to think about it in a negative way, which is exactly what she's afraid of. Let it roll off your back and keep going.
[–]deliriantseed[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great advice! Appreciate it !
[–]Illimitible 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Perhaps he just busted a move and you didn’t.
Just ignore it and get the date and proceed as usual
Yes that’s what I am doing. Apart from me posting about it haha. I’m just wondering why she would say she has a boyfriend. Thanks for the advice.
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