Can a girl like you but not want to have a relationship with you?

SrZiino · 2020-03-11T15:12:43+00:00

You missed your opportunity.

I met this girl, we had an awesome first date and she told me she was looking forward for a second date. During the date she would touch me a lot and she even at one time said "sorry I wasn't listening I got lost in your eyes". I really really felt she liked me.

That's her wanting sex.

Couple days later I decided to text her to ask her when to go out, she started replying so slow, like taking hours to reply even when it said she was online. It was like this for days.

She eventually admitted she only wants to go out as friends, she said that she isnt ready for a relationship because she just had a break up and shes not feeling at 100.

That's her getting bored because you didn't provide sex.

Forget this girl, she crossed you as a sex provider in her mind, and she will abuse you as the pussy you are if you pursue her. Shit happens, nothing too bad.

Go for the next one, and push your luck.

ilikepie145 · 2020-03-11T15:18:32+00:00

That sucks man. I would say them liking you but not wanting a relationship isn’t really the norm. Saying she isn’t ready for a relationship is a stupid excuse when she is going on dates

2020-03-11T16:20:05+00:00

She's probably telling you all of that sexual stuff and staring deep into your eyes because she just came off the rebound and her emotions are still raw. You can pursue her but honestly it's probably not worth it because she will be very hot and cold and you will be scratching your head left wondering what's going on.

smoothmax · 2020-03-11T16:46:15+00:00

You must have at least a handful of girls and preferably as many girls as possible, that you juggle or "manage" through texting, hangouts, social contacts, etc.

When you do that you have the space and emotional distance to be able to figure out how to manage chicks who flake, ghost, send dry texts, and who eventually might come on strong.

If you're mostly thinking about a single girl it's hard to figure what to do with her and you tend to either come on too strong and scare her away, or drop her prematurely. Chicks can tell by ESP (actually by subtle things in the way you text her or talk to her) whether you're either popular with women and have a lot of dating choices, or you're needy and desperate.

If chicks get from your vibe that you're a popular ladies man then it doesn't matter at all what kind of whiny excuses they might have (such as getting over an ex) ... if she likes you she'll put aside the excuses and make time for you 'cause she feels that the competition for you is hot.

smgtn · 2020-03-11T15:21:06+00:00

Tl;dr: you were a beta fag and didn't bang her.

Title	Can a girl like you but not want to have a relationship with you?
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Date	March 11, 2020 3:05 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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