Need help progressing convos to sex

newtanwhodis · 2020-03-21T18:29:48+00:00

Have you tried asking them to come back to your place?

noobmaster1991 · 2020-03-21T21:17:02+00:00

I got you homie!

When you're in any dating app it's a numbers game. But I usually start with

1."you got a beautiful smile that radiates and gives me good vibes" and I wanna get to know you. 2. hey I think you're cute and I want you to be my favorite mistake! (Cocky and funny) Or check out their bio and build your starting convo around that. I Usually start the convo with how they have this aura of calmness or that they have this very infectious smile that radiates! Be descriptive with words! I usually avoid being sexual in the beginning, don't want to look thirsty.

The number one mistake guys do is give her too much power and what I mean is that men don't qualify women! They think too much with their dicks that they forget that you shouldn't be easy when talking to a girl. She's qualifying you! So you should do the same! Flip the script, tell her that you know she's pretty and that she has many guys falling for her but you need depth and nuance in a women!
Ask her what her passion is! Ask what makes her tick! What is her hobbies! Try to get to know her ask her questions. Build rapport and look like you're genuine interested in her and what her passion is!
Give her a nickname! This anchors you in her mind and it's a cute banter. sometimes I call the girls am talking stitch (from Lilo and stitch) they later ask why they ain't Lilo? I tell them cause am Lilo 😎
This is what you were looking for! Escalation! In order to move into pillow and talk to already build rapport and you made her feel secure with you. And also qualify her! Ask her questions that lead up into physical things for

example: would you rather have someone who's a good kisser or a good dancer?

Or what's your fav part of the male body? And then slowly escalate into what's you're fav part of the female body.

And what you would do with her.

This is were you shine and show how fucking immaculate and descriptive with words you are! You wanna know why fifty shades of Gray is popular? Because it paints a vivid picture to women!

Example: Tell her how you're gonna begin foreplay with her, tell her how you will pin her down, grab her hair and slowly run your fingers across her arms into her nape and how slowly you nibble her ears as she gasps for breath! As you give her none you whisper to her ear what she wants? and then ignore her cause you're in charge. And put her body in dog like position and slowly progress into her belly slowly rubbing her with your fingers untill you go down on her sweet nectar and slowly caressing it until she moans with pleasure.

Many guys suck at painting a mental picture with women. They only think about themselves and don't even care about making a women cum. This to me is blasphemous and selfish!

Read books and learn how to be descriptive with words and how to make them metaphorically sexual. For example a sword and a sheath, the sword had girth, and length ready to dance in the ecstasy of bloody orgies and the only thing that could calm it's frenzy is the sheath ever so delicate and confident it embraces the sword's sweet embrace as it spasm in heaves in the unification. Blah blah blah you get the shtick.

Good luck.

quinnmcd · 2020-03-21T21:14:04+00:00

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2020-03-21T19:00:38+00:00

I’m 19 and same here besides I’ve never had a first kiss. I don’t think right now is the time to worry about it because of corona. Just try to get girls interested through text rn and hopefully take them out after quarantine is over in the coming weeks/months.

2020-03-21T19:38:28+00:00

Ask them to come over your house sometime to hang out

teki_kenpachi · 2020-03-21T21:10:58+00:00

You have to get to hang out with them and then you have to put across a certain vibe, the things you say dont really matter. It's the energy and interactions that escalate things to sex.

throwawayadvisry22 · 2020-03-21T19:05:36+00:00

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