How to deal with a girl flaking on you(Flaking 101)

PiperBigBell · 2020-04-03T05:45:09+00:00

I'm slightly torn on this advice. So, first off 95% of your points were legit. However, we need to start coming down harder on women, and by doing that display more value. Meaning, flaking is in its purest form, disrespect. Women often know days ahead of time they were gonna flake. They know during that day they had zero intention of seeing you.

Most women are never going to be honest about flaking. Again, flaking is disrespectful. Why? Because it's almost if not always based on a lie or being inconsiderate. How do we know this? Because 97% will never personally offer to reschedule. So how does a high value man look trying to reschedule with someone who lied to him or abused his time investment, probably days in advance?

Cut her off and move on. If she's flaked on you once, the chances of her doing it again are now triple. Because women learn how to view you from your reactions very quickly. They get used to things real fast. So while she might say oh he's so cool for not getting mad, subconsciously she knows it doesn't mean shit to flake. She has no reason to respect you.

This is why it is important to make her make it up to you. Tease and punish? No. Women don't care enough for that. Instead, if she offers a new time or accepts your new proposal, you tell her the parking, the food, the drinks is on her. As far as the PUA dude trying to get her to buy him stuff, he failed because he probably came off manipulative and bitchy.

But if you come off cool, masculine, and have healthy entitlement. You can playfully tell her what she has to do in order to get back in your graces. And they'll do it when you portray yourself as a man worthy of respect.

This is a quality control issue. Yes in pickup you can get a girl to come out, but after that first time she knows she can jerk you around, waste your time, keep lying to you.

So for guys that are learning how to control their environment for the first time, yea, pursue her and get her out just to see that it's possible. But real high value is having standards, boundaries. And remember, most if not all flaking is just another way of saying I don't respect you and I won't keep my word.

bosslessmindset · 2020-04-03T10:51:52+00:00

I see what you are saying. However, if guys would start cutting girls who flake on them they would lose most girls!

High value people don’t make a big deal out of things. That’s a clear difference. People who do come from scarcity.

Luke said that he went with his UFC buddy to Vandal in NYC to celebrate a party. Some guys bumped into his friend. If his UFC friend would have acted aggressively every time someone bumped him he would have gotten in tons of fights. Since he’s in UFC, people assumed he would. Instead, he said, “No worries man, you’re good.”

mr_Tobbor · 2020-04-03T12:05:55+00:00

Approaching, number closing then flakery... calling on phone, make a date > then ghausted... dating>> seduce >>fuck. How many approaches, how many calls, how many dates has gone by the wind. Why? How many guys can stay unissued in such a "game"! Nobody. If you are quite handsome, without mental issues you have pussy. Else you have pussy, but lower (under 6) in HB scale. Or you stay there masturbating, be asexual, get married very lower than your value is, just for fuck etc. Always 80% of women fuck upper 20% of men. And that will never change. Ever!!!

quinnmcd · 2020-04-03T13:24:48+00:00

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sovr610 · 2020-04-03T02:32:41+00:00

I just spin plates so if one flakes you got another, only recommend 3-4 girls at once if you got a full time job.

Title	How to deal with a girl flaking on you(Flaking 101)
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Date	April 3, 2020 1:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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