So, I know this girl from work, which already is a bad idea because as the saying goes "Don't shit where you eat" and she's probably been the only girl I've ever been interested in. She's smart and funny and good looking and has similar interests to me. I've never had a girlfriend before, never asked a girl out or even kissed one. She just got out of a long term relationship and is single again.

However, in my heart I know it would never work out between us. I am in college and only back for the summer and she isn't. Also, we have a mutual friends who has known her since grade school and he really likes her, he had sex with her twice a few years ago and ever since then he's been really hung up about her and he mentioned the two might start saying again.

I know it would never work out, like I said. Also, he would be very upset if I got with her and it would more then likely end our friendship. I just want to know how to stop my feelings towards her and move on with my life. I don't want to end with a case of oneitis and be all hung with her.

tl;dr: I like this girl and I don't want to anymore