One of the "no-no" words of dating is "whatever you want to do we can do". It sounds like you're a caring person who cares about your date's feelings, however, women HATE when men say this when it comes to making a decision.
Women may disagree with this post, but they get turned on by men who plan and take the lead in situations.
On a date:
Man: "I made reservations to [VENUE]. We have to be there at 8pm"
The toilet is broken:
Man: "I called the plumber. He's gonna be here at 3pm."
or
Man: "Let me get my tools"
There are a lot of women who grew up with a father figure in the house (her biological father, stepfather, uncle, etc) who does manly shit around the house. She looks up to and has a lot of respect for this man. When her man does manly shit around the house, she respects him. She wants to do womanly shit for him.
I wrote a post called Should You Be A Control Freak Or Do You Take Control Of The Situation, where I talk about how no matter how much a woman says she's "independent" she still wants a strong man who can take control of the situation. I also explain what "I don't need a man to do anything for me" actually means.
Want your wife to cook, clean, and do laundry? Start fixing things around the house. Pay the bills in the house. If something breaks, and you need a professional, pick up the phone and schedule an appointment. When a woman sees you're on your shit, she will give you less lip.
This extends outside the household as well.
Something a woman loves to hear is "It's already taken care of" or "I got this"... and it's taken care of or the situation is handled.
So the next time you go on a date with your dream girl, find out what she likes and take her on a date.
You know she likes Caribbean food, "I'm gonna take you to that new Caribbean spot that just opened up.
You know she likes dancing, "I'm gonna take you salsa dancing for our date this Friday"
If you want to impress a woman, take the lead.
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