As I got older, and looked back at my life, I didn't like how a lot of interactions went due to my horniness. When you're horny, you do stupid things and you allow stupid shit to happen like a woman making you jump through hoops in hopes of sleeping with her.

In order to successfully escalate sexually, you need to get the girl hornier than you. When a man begs her to sleep with him, it puts him in a situation where he is at her mercy. Women don't respect men who they can manipulate with sex. You have to get into a position of power. This requires patience and a little restraint.

It could take weeks, months, years... or even hours.

If a woman likes you, she'll like being around you. The trick is don't spend too much time around her. Allow her to miss you. When you talk to her, if you're at this point in your relationship, grab her by her waist or smack her on her butt. Don't try to get her to sleep with you, just play with her in a sexual way. If you text her, don't send dick pics. Instead, flirt with her and give her something to think about in your absence. She will look forward to seeing you again. When she sees you, she will get excited. She may even go out of her way to be available to you. You want to build this desire in her. You want her to start suggesting certain things like:

"I got the house to myself. Wanna come over" if she lives with other people.

"Wanna get out of here?" if you met her at the bar or club.

"I just wanna rip your clothes off" while she's in very close quarters to you.

Be cool. Move in a control, steady manner. Don't look like you're about to get lucky. You want her to feel like she's getting lucky.

This may be a new concept for some of you, but you don't have to get the ass that same night. This gives you a shot clock timer in your head and it's making you look thirsty. Instead, know and understand that when you don't beg and plead for her to sleep with you, but build up sexual desires in her, she is at your mercy... and this is how women like it. This is why a lot of women chase men who treat them like shit.

You don't have to treat her like shit to get the same good results that these men get. As a matter of fact, most nice guys don't do what I explained. In their mind, they feel that being nice should be rewarded. With you, you're building a sexual desire in her. You're not giving the impression that you should be rewarded, but, instead, you're the bringer of sexual excitement. Some women are conservative and won't be so aggressive, so you want to isolate these women so they feel like they can let loose. Make her feel comfortable for letting out her inner slut. You can tell her something like,

"It's okay to be turned on. You can touch me. I don't bite."

When you're able to build a strong sexual desire in women, while staying cool, calm, and collected, this may make her think she has to work harder to please you. So she may do some freaky shit (shit you like) just to please you.