Right now there are some men who think that they can't get women because of their looks.

What actually happens when you do this is your body language changes. You may avoid eye contact, you may have your head down, you may look down at the floor when you talk to her. Your poor attitude and sense of self-uncertainty will make you look unattractive to women... even if you have male-model looks.

Let's say you think you're an ugly man, but you still look women in the eye. You speak to them with certainty. You show interest without being cringey. What do you think is gonna happen? You will look more attractive. There will be "something about you".

Don't think of yourself as an ugly man. Think of yourself as an average-looking man. Your attitude will sway what end of the spectrum you'll fall on. If you're cringey and creepy, you'll be "ugly" to women. If you're cool and confident, you'll fall on the attractive, "there's just something about him" end of the spectrum.

The more you normalize women, the more confident you'll become. Have you noticed that unattractive women are usually attracted to you? That's because you don't put them on a pedestal. You may even seem smooth and confident around unattractive women. The moment you like a woman, you act needy, you put her on a pedestal, you are at her mercy. You fall right into the category of men she finds unattractive.

Try this. The hotter a woman is, the less you care about getting her. Not in a "she's out of my league so I won't try" kinda way. More like, "she's hot, let's see if she's worth my time. If not, I'm not afraid to walk away from her". The moment you start thinking on these lines, your attitude will change. You'll feel like you have power in the interaction. You may notice that she will try to be on her best behavior or start showing signs that she's interested in you.

This new mindset will take conditioning, but once it's a part of your personality, you'll see how much success you'll have with hotter women. The more you value yourself, the more she will value you. If she does not value you, don't get involved with her.