I had a girl over tonight and we were making out for awhile (sorry covid). About 5 minutes into making out she said she wasn’t having sex with me, even though I never brought up the idea of sex. We made out for awhile longer and she took her shit off. After that I tried to unbuckle her belt but she said “no, I want to get to know you better” I respected her decision and just keep kissing her and her body for the next hour. I felt like she wanted to have sex for that whole hour, but was so afraid to make a move because she had said no in the beginning.

Now i’m laying in my bed with balls that feel as if they have been kicked over and over again for the past hour.

Is there anything I can change if this happens again with a girl in the future?