Men,

Idk where you started but i started from a place where i was scared to get into a conversation with girls because i thought i would run out of things to say.

In reality, my mental state, certain mindsets limited my ability. One of them was the fear of going into an awkward conversation. Like, thats natural. Some conversations are going to get awkward. Don't be afraid of that. As you get better, u minimize that but this is something EVEN conversation masters experience.

Another issue I had was limiting topics i am interested in. I used to think talking about certain things im interested in is not good because I have to talk about things that people are interested in. For example, if i talked about super nintendo, i would be lame/girls dont like that.

other issues like trying to control the conversation. Not embracing the chaos of it all. I go over more mental blocks in the video linked below.

But, overall you have to embrace the chaos. Not be afraid to go into awkward conversations. It is normal. Everything is normal as you are improving.

Thanks for reading this.

Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cedjwPnchEw

Peace out!