This sub, as well as so many resources out there devoted to seduction, are a lifesaver for a lot of people, myself included. Just over a year ago, I found myself here for the first time, and I needed it at the time. At the time, I was at a personal low, and this sub plus great resources like Todd V on YouTube helped me to really get myself together. Suddenly, I realized that what was really important was focusing on and building up myself, and I had so many great people and resources to help that journey. This post is, in absolutely no way, meant to take that away from anyone. If you're still a newcomer, or you're struggling with confidence and/or talking to girls, this sub is a great place to start.

But, here's the thing. Once you've taken some lessons from all of this, you really need to step back and start working on your own. This community is awesome in terms of showing love and support, and it's far too easy to not leave the nest, so to speak. But, ultimately, you will never grow as a person and achieve your goals unless you do. So, to those of you who linger around this sub, you're not doing yourselves any favors. And this isn't aimed at anyone specific, this is more just something that came into my mind seeing this sub after not participating in it for a while.

Don't spend your entire life in the batting cages. At some point, step up to the plate and you'll realize you can hit a home run.

PS, this pandemic sucks for everyone. Obviously, not a lot of game is happening right now for anyone. But, I hope you all are staying healthy and sane, and when we're finally able to get back to normal I hope you all are out there killin it.