One of my best friends hooked up with my ex.

stickfiguresk · 2015-05-31T20:58:01+00:00

Well, there's two ways of looking at it, imo. Your friend either scooped your half eaten sammich out the trash and took a bite out of it, or he just walked all over a very sensitive issue for you.

I can appreciate both of those perspectives, but ones obviously better. He violated bro-code, but ultimately didn't do anything "evil"... it's your thing. Not a TRP matter.

alreadyredschool · 2015-05-31T22:16:14+00:00

Why do you care?

CastingLimerence · 2015-06-01T03:53:36+00:00

How long were you guys broken up when your friend fucked her?

KingoftheAssholes · 2015-05-31T21:22:24+00:00

This going to sound nuclear but soft next the whole friend group. This woman is a cancer upon the group. It is true that you give the cancer to your group but you can't stop it now. This type of girl is a destroyer of friendships. Walk away NOW. Friends invite you out = No I'm busy. They ask why be honest I don't want to be around what's her face. Real friends will come to you without her there and see her for what she is.

AlphaAccountant · 2015-05-31T21:00:46+00:00

You have to determine how things went down. She potentially threw herself at him to get back at you. If so, and you cut him out of your life, who wins? Her.

Stop being a little bitch, speak to your friend (can't trust a ho) and go from there.

9 times out of 10, you should be happy for your bro, cause he just increased his notch count.

Caveat: he makes her LTR material. Having understood how crazy she is, cut them both out of your life.

cray-cray-cray · 2015-05-31T20:26:41+00:00

You're about to get an amazing collection of the most butthurt answers.

But there are really just so many factors you made no mention of.

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-06-01T00:31:11+00:00

She did it just to get back at you, make no mistake.

And he bought right into it. Either he's a bitch who is also trying to get over on you or he's a simp who is so desperate he walked right into that situation. Fuck him.

You sure they weren't hooking up the entire time?

3rt41 · 2015-06-01T07:33:28+00:00

A true BRO would pass on some pussy to not hurt another bro

ianmarconi · 2015-06-01T11:56:33+00:00

There is two types of people on this discussion. The ones that banged some friend's ex and defend that it's not a big deal, she is not your property and was a long time ago. And the ones that had one a friend banging a ex and defend that he broke the brocode. Ultimately, people will defend the opinion that make themselves feel better.

Personally I think that a friend's ex is prohibited territory, there is a LOT of pussy in this world, the fact that your friend choose to get your ex's pussy , says a lot about both of them.

Yes, I had a "best friend" that dated one of my ex's and, surprise, turn out that he wasn't one of the best friends in the world and we never spoke again.

Title	One of my best friends hooked up with my ex.
Author	tntt9879
Upvotes	3
Comments	24
Date	May 31, 2015 8:13 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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