That dreaded word: REJECTION!

What if I told you, you would never be rejected ever again?

Well…then I would be LYING to you.

It sounds pretty cool to say it: "I have the magic pill so you never have to get rejected ever again”But, let me tell you something.

This pill doesn’t exist.

What I want to show you in this guide is not how to eliminate rejection but rather how to deal with rejection so it does not affect you.

Let's crack into it.

▪️Step 1:Change Your Mental Thought Loop

Let me explain, Let’s say there are two guys.

Bob and Ryan.

They both have equal skills with women and have very similar physiques. They both have been friends for years and have similar personalities.

But there is a huge difference between them. When Bob gets rejected and it absolutely Destroys him.

When Ryan gets rejected, it doesn’t affect him.

How is Ryan doing it?

Well, it is the way each of them is viewing rejection in their heads. When Bob gets rejected, his thought loop goes like this:

“OMG I suck, women hate me, I knew she hated me, I am such a loser, I will never get a girl”

He plays this thought loop over and over again in his head every time he gets rejected.

This thought loop will reemphasize negative thoughts about rejection and rejection will get scarier and scarier for Bob.

When Ryan gets rejected he also has a mental thought loop that goes something like this:

“I just did something that 99% of men cannot do. I am one step closer to getting my dream girl."I am getting even more numb to rejection. This is awesome."

2 similar men.

One huge difference.

Ryan’s subjective experience of rejection is giving him a huge advantage.

He will be able to go about this journey and not get destroyed by the trauma of rejection.Bob is going to get more and more sucked into his negative mental thought loops. He will probably get so scared of rejection and never approach again.

Change your mental thought loop and rejection will no longer affect you.

▪️Step 2:Realizing That Rejection Is A Selfish Mindset

Most guys get rejected and feel a negative pang of emotions.

“Why does she not like me, I suck, etc”.This is selfish.

All I hear is "Me Me Me Me".

The world does not revolve around you. She could be rejecting you because she is in a bad mood, she is tired, she is angry with her friends, she got approached too much by creepy guys that night, the guy she likes doesn’t like her, and you think this rejection only has to do with you? Selfish.

You can see where I am getting at here. She is not rejecting you. She is rejecting you based on her current emotional experiences and based on how the environment is affecting her.

▪️Step 3: She Can't Reject You If She Doesn’t Know YouHow can a random girl at a bar reject you?

She literally can’t. Why?

She doesn’t know you.

There is nothing to base that rejection off besides a few seconds of your personality. She doesn’t know your dreams, your passions, your interests, your mindsets, your goals, etc. How can she reject you if she doesn’t know you?

Who can reject you? Your mom can. Your best friend can. Why? They are basing this rejection off more evidence of your personality.

▪️Step 4: Don’t Take It Personally

Because of all the other steps, it’s important that you do not take rejection personally as I said before that she doesn’t even know you. If a random hot girl at a bar says you are a loser.

Does this make you a loser? No. Who the hell is she to define your identity.

And it’s ridiculous for you to let her. She can say what she wants but you need to understand that it shouldn’t have any weight into how you view yourself.

This is just the tip of the iceberg. Feel free to pm me if you want to discuss more

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