So excited, this is honestly a better feeling than when I lost my own virginity, I’m so proud of the dude.

His name was Alan and he was working in a Finance job in Texas. 5’7” virgin Asian, never had a girlfriend in his life.

He discovered me online and I offered to train him for free since he lived near me. Now Alan had one thing a lot of people don’t have - Balls Of Steel. This guy would go out and approach 50 girls in one night. He was relentless, fearless, I suspect partially autistic. He just didn’t give a flying fuck about rejection, all he cared about was the result.

The problem was, nothing he was doing was working. Even though he put the work in and tried spitting game at every girl in the bar, they just weren’t receptive... most of the time he would get automatically rejected within 3 seconds of conversation.

Sometimes, he’d hook a girl really hard in the beginning since he was absolutely fearless and exhibited confident traits but the girl would always leave and be creeped out when he wouldn’t be able to connect at all.

This is honestly the first time I’ve ever had a student like this. Most people are too scared to approach, and the goal is to gradually get them to lose fear and man up. This was the complete opposite. Zero fear but little to no empathy or social skills as well.

He told me that he struggled with socializing his entire life and it’s impacted his work, his friendships, everything. He was always considered weird, autistic, nerdy. And nothing he was doing worked.

I decided to really help him out because I saw how hard he was trying to fix this problem. The first thing we did was completely script out and memorize the entire interaction from opening to isolation. Autism prevented him from having the social awareness to say non creepy or weird shit so even though it sounds ridiculous, this was necessary. In fact, we found that whenever he went off script, the girl would get turned off. Every time he thought he was being clever he was actually being creepy.

Next, I tried to get him to change his fashion and hairstyle and get elevator shoes. He was extremely stubborn about this and refused. He thought his K-Pop style was fine in Texas, a deep south state where the dominant culture is white.

I tried to get him to make an Instagram but he said social media is for losers...

He started getting better results with the script but still no sex. Not even a makeout. He would start pulling girls to another location for an instadate with the script but have no skills to continue the conversation in any non weird way.

But both of us were persistent and didn’t give up. I developed a conversation blueprint where he just repeats what the girl says in question format to get her to open up more, and sprinkle in a few teases and flirts here and there.

He finally started getting his first makeouts but there was still a huge amount of resistance whenever he tried to pull them home.

I told him that at this point it’s not a game issue anymore, it’s an SMV issue. But he still refused to get the haircut elevator shoes and fashion I recommended.

This struggle continued for a long time before he finally decided enough is enough and got all the recommended items at once. He got a pompadour fade undercut haircut to fit into the white culture. He got a blazer and chinos. He got elevator shoes to be 3 inches taller. He got the watch I recommended.

Suddenly, game wasn’t so hard anymore. He started hooking girls right away and even got approached randomly while gaming. But he still didn’t have enough value. There was still huge resistance whenever it was time to make out or have sex. I don’t think coronavirus helped either. Girls were just nervous about going home with a stranger in general unless the SMV is high enough.

That’s when he finally relented and got an Instagram set up as well. Not whenever he went out, he’d get pictures with the girls he hit on and add them to his Instagram. He only had like 60 followers but it was enough to bring his SMV past the line of fuckability.

He got his first lay with a cute white girl yesterday. So happy for this dude. Words cannot describe the feeling of triumph on both sides.

Key takeaways: autism is a real killer for any kind of success with women. It’s probably 10X harder to get good than a normal person.

It’s probably virtually impossible to get good without a coach or mentor if you have autism. There’s just too many weird traits and quirks and you won’t be able to correct them without a friend to point out the mistakes.

Anyways, that’s not the point. The point is anything is possible. If this 5’7” Asian Autistic virgin can figure things out and get laid what’s your fucking excuse?