~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | is talking about your Passion a turn off for women?Depends what you want from the girls you see (FWB, LTR etc) and how high your expectations / standards are. Do you want to be able to have a good conversation after sex, or do you only care if the sex is good? Obviously standards should be higher the less casual things are. If you want a fuckbuddy to also be an interesting intelligent person and that's your standard then cool. If you start talking about your passions and she tunes out, you've learned that she's not what you're looking for. If yo… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Letting your intentions known immediately vs Just letting things play out?Dude, are you kidding? Being upfront gets you laid infinitely more, with less drama, less games, less wasting time on girls that aren't into you. It's a lot less effort than thinking when you might have to eventually tell a girl what your intentions are and it completely avoids the: 'where is this going?' conversation. Girls are way more into me when I'm upfront, because when we're after the same thing, they can relax and open up. The girls are more fun to be around and the sex is better because… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | I just saw my girlfriend having lunch with another guy. I need advice on how to deal with the upcoming short-term depressive and overthinking phase I know I'm bound to go through?Hey fellow Aussie | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 11:58 AM |
| 5 | I just saw my girlfriend having lunch with another guy. I need advice on how to deal with the upcoming short-term depressive and overthinking phase I know I'm bound to go through?You asked specifically for help dealing with depression. Start with this book, it's hands-down the best book I've ever read on depression: You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought. Then watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LUYBWuI5uXk Essentially, focus on self-improvement. Make self-improvement your religion; pour all your time and energy and focus into it. Be consumed by it; become obsessed. Every day you wake up, decide "Today I will be better than I was yesterday." Nothing ta… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Never Let a Woman See You Bleed.Yep, absolutely agree. This sums it up: Immy's Thoughts on "Being Alpha" | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/20 01:05 AM |
| 64 | Is it wise to try to build up your girls confidence?Should you help build another human being up? Yes of course you fucking should - isn't that the entire point of this sub and TRP? To encourage people to be better, to self-improve, to be more confident. Your girl will be far more loyal to you and will treat you a million times better if you build her up. Win/win for both of you. -Andy | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 11:43 AM |
| 20 | Is it wise to try to build up your girls confidence?This. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 11:43 AM |
| 5 | Girl is in love and I feel horribleThis. OP, just end things and you'll instantly feel better. Then go hit on more girls. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/20 11:27 PM |
| 22 | What I have learned from dating after 60I'm 33 and it is FAR easier for me to bang 18-25yo girls than it ever was in my 20's. I get laid roughly one new girl every 2-3 weeks (proof: https://killyourinnerloser.com/proof ). Of course, self-improvement is key; you can't be a fat mess and expect to drown in younger pussy. There's a reason TRP is always going on about lifting weights, dropping fat, upping your style, working on your confidence, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/20 09:17 PM |
| 46 | Why get into an LTR?Yep - keep a woman around for as long as she adds value to your life. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 06:51 AM |
| 26 | Just got hit “maybe it’s me but it seems like you’re not interested in me anymore”. What’s the best response?Yeah just what you wrote - "I'm into you, you're overthinking this. Come over friday night at 6pm." | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 12:39 AM |
| 2 | My ex who cheated on me is in the hospital with serious injuries after a car accident. Not sure how to feel or what to do.Maybe. We can't save everyone, I guess. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 10:53 PM |
| 4 | What is it like to have actual abundance reality? (no larping)Quality: When you've banged 100+ girls you'll stop even referring to "quality", because you'll realise two guys can look at the exact same girl and one will say "She's a 9!" and the other will say "Lol what? She's a 4." The number system is pretty damn useless. I'm very happy with the quality of girls I bang now - that's probably the only metric you need to worry about. Are you happy with the girls you're banging? If so, awesome! If not, work on yourself more until you can bang the girls you wan… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 05:57 AM |
| -1 | My ex who cheated on me is in the hospital with serious injuries after a car accident. Not sure how to feel or what to do.Assuming you want to (it sounds like you do): Send her a message/visit her briefly and just wish her all the best and "I hope you get better". Just a friendly message to tell her you're sorry to hear she's gone through some trauma. (Again, only if you WANT to). But absolutely don't do more than that, don't reignite anything, don't see her multiple times, don't try to be friends, etc. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 05:50 AM |
| 5 | Showing Intent with Semi-Direct Approaches?Just be direct/up front after you've talked for a couple minutes. eg when you ask for her number, say, "By the way you're really cute. We should grab a drink. What's your number?" | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Feeling you were wrong for breaking up, even if she was crazy ?Good on you mate. Yep I get it - I've been there before. Block her and you'll feel a lot better - then immediately go talk to other girls/work on your own self-improvement. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Feeling you were wrong for breaking up, even if she was crazy ?Controlling = dealbreaker Gaslit = dealbreaker Fights and going bezerk = dealbreaker Convincing you it was "just an episode" = dealbreaker You did the right thing, mate. But what you need to do now is stop making this harder on yourself and just block her number. Seriously - block it right now. Don't do anything else, not a single other thing, until you've blocked her number. You're keeping yourself tied to her and you're just hurting yourself. -Andy | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 2 | I really feel like contacting my ex for closure....Read the link u/itiswr1tten just gave you. Or message her if you want, and you'll likely regret it. Either way, you'll learn - so pick one and do it, instead of just sitting around complaining. (I'm saying this with love - tough love. Take action and do something, instead of sitting here asking us to tell you what to do. Be a man and just pick one.) | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 01:03 AM |
| 1 | How to still feel confident after rejection after rejectionDude, you're getting numbers - that's success. You're not necessarily getting rejected - they're just not available or not interested for one of 10,000 reasons. Keep improving your looks, lose a little weight if you need to, dress better, hit the gym, etc - focus on the stuff you can change. And get out there and keep hitting the numbers HARD - how many girls are you hitting on right now? Aim for 20 a week minimum. Do that for a month, and report back. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 01:01 AM |
| 0 | Sending first dates back to their homes after sex"And yeah "do whatever you want" but I am thinking if I treat them like ONS I won't get more than ONS.." I don't let any girls sleep over, ever. Almost 100% of girls see me multiple times - I never have one night stands. You don't HAVE to let a girl sleep in your bed in order for her to see you again, mate. Just be chill, explain you like having your bed to yourself, and tell her you had a great time and really want to see her again. Make it clear you don't want a one night stand - be honest and… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 10:22 AM |
| 4 | Women and COVID"There’s a 95% Chance You Won’t Listen to Anything I Say" “I Can’t Get Laid Because…” I'll post both of those on TRP properly at some point (as in, copy-paste the content here so people don't have to click to my site to read it). | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | For those who went from skinny to ripped, what was your experience like?The experience was fucking mindblowing: https://killyourinnerloser.com/why-losing-fat-matters-above-all-else/#why-losing-fat-matters-most (I went from skinny to skinny-fat then ripped). I'll copy-paste what I wrote in that article: Since getting this lean, everything has gotten easier. I get far more matches on Tinder, now that I’m using the pic on the right as my main pic (the pic of me with abs). Girls are far more into me – “Wow you’re hot” is a regular reply to my first message on Tinder. Th… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Women and COVIDDamn straight. I wrote a long article called "I cant get laid because..." with a list of like 20 excuses people give me. They all boil down to "...Because it's hard." I might share that article on here at some point. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/20 12:30 AM |
| 14 | Women and COVIDGood post - particularly about not making any excuses. There'll always be a reason not to hit on girls. 99% of those reasons are bullshit excuses that really just boil down to, "I'm scared, because approaching can be hard." | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/20 12:18 AM |
| 4 | Women and COVIDIf you make an assertion, the burden falls on you to prove it. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/20 12:16 AM |
| 27 | Tinder Mistakes You’re Probably MakingYep and they only get it because guys readily and happily give it to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 01:42 AM |
| 32 | Tinder Mistakes You’re Probably MakingYeah man whatever works for you - long bar dates work for you, fucking awesome. This is all just a process of experimenting, finding out waht works best for you, and then going for it. Your methods are going to be different to my methods. At the end of the day as long as we're both getting laid, then it's all good. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 01:42 AM |
| 115 | Tinder Mistakes You’re Probably MakingYeah, Rational Male/Rollo Tomassi says it best: "The medium is the message". If she's not giving you a clear answer, THAT IS the clear answer. She's not into you. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 01:41 AM |
| 1 | How I Beat My Approach Anxiety (Fear of Hitting on Girls)Hey mate, I've sent you a PM about this. Cheers. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/20 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Girl I’ve been talking to for a while mentions a date she went on."That type"? As in, the type of girl who goes on a date? You've been talking to this girl. Not dating her. While you were wasting time not making a move, she went with one of her other options. Best thing to do is shake it off (I know it sucks, especially if you liked her) - and go talk to the next girl. There's more fish in the sea. And make a move next time; ask her out on a date instead of spending a long time talking. As you've just found out, talking doesn't necessarily get you closer to da… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Can girls beta bux guys for relationships too?I once dated a girl who paid for all my groceries on the second date - was weird as hell. She bought lunch a few times too, always insisted on paying. If she's happy to pay for your stuff, let her man. She might just be a generous person who likes paying for dudes sometimes. Or maybe she's into the idea of getting a doctor, yeah. Either way, you get some free meals, she gets to spend time with you - sounds like you've flipped the script. Enjoy it. -Andy | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 01:03 AM |
| 3 | What does "not looking for a relationship" mean?Usually - let's have casual sex. Why do you care if she's being fucked by a bigger cock? No need to be insecure. Sounds like she's telling you she wants to bang dude. Go for it. -Andy | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 12:32 AM |
| 3 | How long did it take you to go from average to hot plates?Yep. "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take". | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 12:27 AM |
| 2 | How long did it take you to go from average to hot plates?Can confirm; getting abs/chiselled face helped me more than anything. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Women lying reflexively/subconsciously and female nature" the more women I meet, even ones of more "integrity" it just seems like lying is second nature." Because you're confirmation biasing, and actively seeking it out. If you instead focused your time and effort on finding - and moulding - women to be more honest with you, then you'd have a totally different opinion. I demand honesty from every woman who comes into my life. At the first sign of lies, I next her immediately, because even having sex with her. I also make it abundantly clear (I litera… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Wishy washy response?She literally said yes to you - she's just telling you she wants you to make the plans (most girls want you to organise the date). As u/Alexisonfire24 said, just pick a date/time and tell her you'll meet her then. Go have fun. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement is a Lifelong EndeavourThat's awesome re: internship. Happy for you mate. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever been on a date with a girl only to find out later she had a boyfriend? How did it make you feel?Fair enough. And yep, I find that pretty fucked up too. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | AgeLegit made me laugh. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 09:15 AM |
| 3 | AgeAge doesn't matter. I'm 33 and I've lost count of the number of 18 year olds I've been with. As long as she's happy to see you, and you're happy to see her, what's the issue? Go have fun. -Andy | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 09:15 AM |
| 0 | Self-Improvement is a Lifelong EndeavourWhat to do When You Feel Hopeless and Helpless | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 09:03 AM |
| -11 | Reminder: Keep Your Problems To YourselfI gotta absolutely disagree. Here's my counter-argument. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 05:33 AM |
| 8 | Guys who left the city for the suburbs, how was it different picking up women?I'm absolutely in the same boat right now - making plans to move to suburbs. I'm willing to have a lot less lays if it means less rent, less "hustle and bustle", less craziness, etc. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 05:31 AM |
| 3 | Tempted to just fuck off for two years....Not a bad idea. 2 years may be too long though - that's a really fucking long time. Why not try it for 3 months, then see where you're at? If you like the way it feels, go another 3 months. Then reassess. 2 years just feels like WAY too long. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Tempted to just fuck off for two years....Tinder - go through this: http://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 03:23 AM |
| 6 | Tempted to just fuck off for two years....I'm saying this with love: Everything you're saying is excuses. If you want things to change, you've got to drop the excuses and start taking responsibility. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Tempted to just fuck off for two years...." No independence homie - my parents try to control me, " Leave. ASAP. Make this a priority. Whatever you have to do to make it happen (save money, work a second job, work a third job) - do it. Stop living with people who drag you down; give yourself some freedom. -Andy | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 03:20 AM |
| 13 | Self-Improvement is a Lifelong EndeavourPussy sure is fun though, and lord knows I've written a lot of articles about "how to get the perfect picture angle to get more Tinder matches". ;) The thing I like about TRP is some people use it to chase pussy, others to chase gym PRs. Other guys use it to get out of abusive relationships, and others still to make friends and build the social life they've never had. Others use it to advance their career, or start a business, or build a family. TRP is a tool; what you use it for is up to you. T… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Self-Improvement is a Lifelong Endeavour"But then I get there and stand at the top of the mountain, and it's just like "this is it?"" Yeah, I've hit that exact same peak and had that exact same thought... "Is this it?" I hit that point especially with girls: https://killyourinnerloser.com/sexual-apathy/ Hell yeah I absolutely agree about finding something you MUST do - something that compells you. For me, it's now become, "I have to mentor/help as many people as possible before I die". For another mate of mine, it's "I have to have a … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 02:29 AM |
| 5 | Self-Improvement is a Lifelong EndeavourYeah - on that front, I've always set girls AS a goal. As in, getting laid/finding a relationship isn't the magical fix to all your problems - it's just another goal you'll achieve in a long list of them. Working on goals is the solution... at least that's been the case for me. Yeah I had to hit rock bottom myself too, so don't stress about wasted time. You've got the rest of your life now. Get after it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 02:27 AM |
| 6 | Self-Improvement is a Lifelong EndeavourSorry to hear about the suicidal thoughts, but glad you're still here. Life is tough man, it's a bitch sometimes. But it's worth at least saying, "Ok one day I'll die. Hell, one day I may even take my own life. But fuck it, I may as well go out with a bang. I'll improve myself and fight back as best I can against the suffering - I'll make the most of it." How are things for you these days? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 01:51 AM |
| 17 | Self-Improvement is a Lifelong EndeavourI really like this. Thanks for sharing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been on a date with a girl only to find out later she had a boyfriend? How did it make you feel?A better question is how do YOU feel about it? There is no right way you "should" feel about it. If it was me, I just wouldn't see her again since she wasn't honest and upfront. But you've gotta do what's right for you - do what you want to do. -Andy | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 12:10 AM |
| 8 | holding frame vs not speaking up?The answer will almost always be - do whatever YOU want to do. If you want to speak up, tell her. If you don't, then don't. But I'd caution against directly telling her what to do. There's a chance she'll just keep doing it, but hide it from you. Or stop doing it, but resent you for ordering her around. Life is much easier if you just tell people what your dealbreakers are, and tell them they're perfectly welcome to keep doing the behaviour, but you'll just leave. And always be willing to walk a… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 11:50 PM |
| 5 | Did you ever cheat on your LTR, regret it, and keep it a secret? Did it work out?Yep, many many times in my first 2 relationships. No, it went horribly wrong - resulted in a tonne of drama, fighting, when they eventually found out. Not to mention a tonne of guilt and damage to my psyche. A man shouldn't have to tiptoe and lie and hide the truth - I think it goes against our core nature. Lying makes you feel shit; like you're "not a man". I've since decided honesty is always the best policy in my life. I realise others have no problem with lying and it's not my job to tell ot… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 11:46 PM |
| 1 | LTR told me she is into girlsAgree with u/VasiliyZaitzev - have a 3some mate. She's literally telling you she wants to fool around with another girl. I've got my own 3some guide here: How to Have 3somes Or use Vasiliy's guide - it's really good. -Andy | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 04:53 AM |
| 8 | I'm 31. I've been spending nearly a year bettering myself after ltr breakup, lifting, going back to school, finally getting a decent job that will allow me to make a man's wage. People at my new job can ruin that.How bad are we talking? Are these guys just busting your balls a bit, having friendly banter? Or are they actively insulting you and being massive cunts? If it's just a bit of banter - start googling "stoicism" and Buddhist philosophy and start working towards not caring as much. If it's clear they're actively insulting you and trying to hurt you/bring you down, as if if you actively think they're trying to make you feel shit: then if it was me I'd leave in a heartbeat. Life's too short to waste… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 04:39 AM |
| 1 | This girl sent me a fucking survey after we had sexAutism level = over 9000. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/20 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Doesn't asking to meet during quarantine make you look thirsty as fuck?Keep trying. You got this. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 24 | Doesn't asking to meet during quarantine make you look thirsty as fuck?Are you trying not to look thirsty, or are you trying to get laid? Stop overthinking things - if you want to get laid, then ask girls to meet you. If you don't take your shot, you'll never score. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 09:45 AM |
| 11 | First break up post Red Pill, really reelingWhy would we rip you up for being in love? You'd have to be a psychopath to never fall in love. " Any words would help boys." Be nice to yourself while you're grieving. Take a bit of time to process the breakup, don't judge yourself too harshly if you cry like a little bitch some days. In a few days/weeks the pain won't be so damn raw, and you'll likely look back and say, "I'm really glad I met her. I learned a lot." In the meantime, keep yourself distracted - don't just sit around thinking abou… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 07:26 AM |
| 19 | Creating a Sexual Vibe in Your Tinder Profile: Body Language AnalysisSolid guide. Cheers for writing it. Probably the most important line of your entire post is "This shit takes practice". Too many guys go out and take 1 set of photos, get frustrated they don't instantly look like a male model, and give up. You've gotta take a TONNE of photos, over many different days, constantly improving a little each time. Good things take time; if you've never modelled/had photos done before, you're not gonna get it instantly. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/20 09:57 PM |
| 16 | Anyone notice women out in public are straight up rude if not hostile these days?You're confirmation biasing. I go outside and all I see is the exact opposite; women being nice to people. Especially as women tend to be naturally very agreeable and people-pleasers. You're seeing bad women because you're looking for bad women. "If you stare into the abyss, the abyss will stare back at you." | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/20 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Just How Fucked Are We?What are they trying to achieve? I think this quote from The Dark Knight sums it up best: "Some [people] just want to watch the world burn". | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Questions to ask yourself when placing a woman in your life.Good stuff. You should post more. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Why You Aren't Translating Your Tinder Matches/Dates Into LaysYep, I've said it a million times - talking to girls isn't "making progress". https://killyourinnerloser.com/talking-with-girls-isnt-making-progress/ | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/20 10:28 PM |
| 22 | The Importance of Standing Firm.Sounds like you're starting to work on setting firm boundaries for yourself. Keep it up mate. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 03:36 AM |
| 3 | Relationship Advice Post Analysis: "I (24M) accidentally overheard my gf (24F) acknowledge that her ex is more physically attractive than me, and it's killing me inside"Thanks mate. I post here when I have the time. Glad to hear you're kicking ass - let's make 2020 (and 2021) our bitch. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Relationship Advice Post Analysis: "I (24M) accidentally overheard my gf (24F) acknowledge that her ex is more physically attractive than me, and it's killing me inside"Throwing my own experiences into the mix here too: I was "skinny-fat" most of my life and only recently leaned out to the point I have abs (there's before-after photos here). I've had a few girls literally stare at my abs/pecs and touch them - and all I can think is "Are you staring at me? You actually think I'm hot???" As with most self-improvement, there's a "lag" between improving yourself and your self-esteem catching up. Good post by the way, /u/Psychological_Radish. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/20 01:35 AM |
| 14 | Wife demands Open Marriage or else divorce. Husband accepts for the kids. Wife starts sleeping with a guy lined up immediately. Husband finds someone to sleep with. Wife becomes furious, demands Closed Marriage.Good rebuttals; it's clear you're very happy in yourself. I mean that sincerely - I'm happy when someone genuinely likes themselves and the lifestyle they've built, and it's clear you do. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/20 12:26 AM |
| 17 | Mia Khalifa Wants Her Videos RemovedWhy is /u/neatbeluga being downvoted for being against harming someone innocent whose only crime was being born? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/20 09:24 PM |
| 1 | I don't know how to look anymore. 27y.o. - changed cultural background oftenI personally just tried a bunch of different styles until I found one I liked. If you're asking if one style will get you laid more than another, maybe it would. But I'd suggest you dress how YOU want to dress, and then just hit on more girls (that'll compensate for not having the "perfect" style): https://killyourinnerloser.com/go-talk-to-more-girls/ In short, go try some styles, figure out what you enjoy wearing, and then go hit on a shitload of girls. I've tried 3 very distinct styles over th… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 12:44 AM |
| 1 | I don't know how to look anymore. 27y.o. - changed cultural background oftenI'm not sure what you're even asking. Your post is scattered and you ask about 5 different questions. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 10:45 AM |
| 2 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsNice dude, fucking awesome. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/20 12:54 AM |
| 2 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsAs long as every day/week is a tiny bit better than the previous, you're on the right track. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsThe realest alphas use myspace. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:53 PM |
| 6 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsYep - I literally said, this isn't hard to pull off; you just have to *try*. I'm not sure why you think you need to be "confident" in order to get laid or be successful - I'm a complete fucking trainwreck at the best of times, but I refuse to ever give up. Success = just never quitting. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:50 PM |
| 5 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsCheers man. The spergs are turning good posters away from this sub-reddit. I'm actually glad you pointed this out. It is a bit tiring having to read "You only did this because you're tall/white" and "Having sex with 18yos is paedophilia bro" and "Chasing pussy is beta; a real man doesn't get caught up in meaningless nonsense like women." I wouldn't mind so much if the comments were original, but after you've heard the same drivel for the 30th time, it's just.... boring. "Ask and you shall receiv… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:43 PM |
| 9 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsWe actually joked about having snacks/pizza/etc. In the end we only had about 2hrs to play (I had stuff to do after, so did my girlfriend) so we didn't have time. Next time. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:33 PM |
| 7 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsCheers man. Of fucking course it's a humblebrag. Giving myself credit for my achievements is something I've always REALLY struggled with - I'm my own worst critic. I have a stickynote on my computer that says "Stop Being a Cunt to Yourself, Andy". Every now and then I have to force myself to "brag" about what I've done - I have to balance out some of the negativity with a little positivity once in a while. Ain't always easy but we're all just a work in progress. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:33 PM |
| 2 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsMan, multiple tourists? That's baller. Your second story: weird. Maybe they just weren't bi/curious. Yeah, I find it easier with girls who aren't their friends. Other than my first 3some (my girl and her best friend), no other girl has ever wanted to bang a friend/someone she knows. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:31 PM |
| 6 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsI mean there's literally pics, videos, screenshots, etc in the full post I linked to. But yeah, even I felt like it was surreal as it was happening - "Is this really my life?" But think about it: It's not that complicated. If you can spin one plate, you can spin two. Eventually two plates will be up for the idea of fooling around together; just introduce them to one another and have some fun. Eventually you'll have a 3rd plate who also wants to play. Bring her along too. Again, simple. Not neces… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:29 PM |
| 2 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsOther people will give you their own opinions, but my 2c: Boxing is a bloody good start. Keep that up. At your age you probably want to figure out yourself first and foremost. Read books on Stoicism, listen to Jordan Peterson, watch Jocko Willink, read self-improvement books/websites/podcasts/etc. Figure out who you are as a person, what you like and dislike, what you want your life to be, etc. I know those are BIG questions at your age but may as well start figuring this shit out now (It might … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsWhat I wrote in the first few paragraphs - improving myself, getting my shit together, losing fat, gaining muscle, dressing better (I used to dress like complete shit). Then going outside and talking to girls - I got laid 9 times from talking to girls during the daytime on the street. I signed up for Tinder/online dating, took a bunch of pics (it took me a few months to get a good set of pics), and the rest is history. Again, self-improvement trumps all; make yourself a decent prospect for sex a… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:24 PM |
| 8 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsSweet man, go after it. You have no idea how much getting lean will change your life - not just with girls. People will be nicer to you, friends will comment (you'll probably inspire 1 or 2 of them to lose weight too), job promotions come easier, clothes fit you better. Best of all you get to look yourself in the eyes in the mirror and know you did something hard that took discipline and consistent effort. You'll know you can apply that same discipline and effort to other goals too. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:22 PM |
| 2 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsThanks mate. I feel like a completely different person - hence my username. TRP/self-improvement/masculinity sites save lives. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:20 PM |
| 5 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsIn the full post on my site - I linked to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsYep, the scheduling is a pain. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:13 PM |
| 3 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsOf course - never stick your dick in crazy. After my very toxic first relationship when I was younger, I've always been hypersensitive to that stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:12 PM |
| 3 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsYes. I literally said that several times in the post. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:11 PM |
| 2 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & VidsJust keep trying, man. You'll get there. Before my first 3some, I must have tried like 10 times and something always got in the way. Once you have your first 3some and figure out how to do it, it becomes a lot easier - and a lot more fun. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 10:08 PM |
| 2 | How to Have a 4some (MFFF) - with Pics & Vidshttps://killyourinnerloser.com/youre-so-lucky/ | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | “You Were Born This Way”Well said mate. Or as Jordan Peterson says (and Carl Jung before him): Embrace your shadow). | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/20 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Dead serious: How to make friends as an adult and what to expect out of adult friendships?Yeah meetup is legit. It's like Tinder for socialising/making friends. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Dead serious: How to make friends as an adult and what to expect out of adult friendships?Welcome mate. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 10:55 PM |
| 1 | I don't know how, but here I am, an almost 25 year old incelI'm going to take a different tact to everyone else here offering you advice, and ask: do you actually WANT to lose your virginity? https://killyourinnerloser.com/do-you-actually-want-to-lose-your-virginity/ | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Can being too hard on yourself to be successful cause depression?Well yeah, of course. The hardest lesson I've ever had to learn (and I'm still learning it) is: Stop Being a Cunt to Yourself. -Andy | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Dead serious: How to make friends as an adult and what to expect out of adult friendships?I was in exactly this position about 4 years ago - I had zero friends and had no fucking idea how to make any. I did everything listed here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/surround-yourself-with-good-people/ meetup.com worked the best for me; especially if you deliberately seek out masculine, self-improvement-focused people. Groups like "philosophy groups" and "fitness groups" etc tend to have a lot of those sort of people. You can also search for "masculinity groups" or "groups for men" - I mad… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 03:54 AM |
| 1 | LAY REPORT: SAME DAY SEDUCTIONAwesome man, super happy for you. Sounds like a fun night. -Andy | /r/seduction | 15/06/20 12:01 AM |
| 3 | “You Were Born This Way”Glad you got something out of it. I've already written plenty of counterpoint articles written; maybe ill post some on TRP at some point. Eg: https://killyourinnerloser.com/on-being-alpha/ https://killyourinnerloser.com/what-honesty-looks-like-in-a-relationship/ -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/20 11:26 PM |
| 3 | “You Were Born This Way”"She doesn’t know that I was a fat kid who got picked on in primary school." Then why don't you tell her? "She doesn’t know that I was the worst basketball player on my middle school team." Then why don't you tell her? "She doesn’t know that I was a skinny weakling in high school" Then why don't you tell her? My point is - she doesn't know these things because you haven't told her. "There’s nothing to gain by telling your plate/LTR about the tribulations and troubles of your past. Keep it to you… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/20 08:22 AM |
| 4 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)Keep it up. -Andy | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 01:34 PM |
| 22 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 16 Progress Report (1 number)"I understand cold approaching" *Proceeds to shit on this guy's efforts at cold approaching* | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Approach Anxiety program - Day 1Awesome man, happy for you. | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Approach Anxiety program - Day 1Sure mate, I've just sent it now. | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | "Shes not yours but your turn" makes me not want to do anything with a womanYeah I feel you on that - I used to be the same. As long as both people consent and enjoy it, how's it wrong? Fuck modern PC bullshit; they think EVERYTHING is wrong. To them, literally being a man is wrong. | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 09:15 PM |
| 3 | So every woman is capable of riding the cock carousal, slutting around etc?You do understand girls wash between sexual partners, yeah? | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 09:21 AM |
| 4 | So every woman is capable of riding the cock carousal, slutting around etc?Sure, but why do you give a fuck? Focus on yourself, the things you can change - hit the gym, make friends, work on your mental health, dress better, etc. It's also a fool's errand to look at the worst behaviour a woman is "capable" of. If it came down to it, every single man is capable of murder under the right circumstances (eg if he has to defend his own life). Does that mean men are evil/bad/etc? Stop focusing on the worst of womanhood and try seeking out the best. Focus on the positive, not… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Just got a knife pulled on meYou're ok; that's literally all that matters. Sorry this happened to you. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 05:33 AM |
| 5 | Plate says she’s going to be half hour late, how to approach ?While you're sitting there stressing about being a "beta chump", I'm out there saying "no worries" and getting laid left right and centre. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Girl kind of shit testing me (i think)Amen. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Girl kind of shit testing me (i think)u/Nyquil-Junkie hit the nail on the head - this isn't a test. Not everything is a shit-test. Sometimes a girl is just talking to you and having a bit of fun. What's your actual goal? To get her out on a date? Message her, "We should grab a drink/coffee. Free tomorrow at 5pm?" Stop wasting time texting - get her out on a date, and you can talk in-person. It's hard to get to know someone or have sex with them/date them over a phone screen. -Andy | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 12:28 AM |
| 7 | Plate says she’s going to be half hour late, how to approach ?"No worries, see you soon." Don't overthink this. She's not testing you mate - she's literally just running late. Have you never been late to anything in your entire life? | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 12:25 AM |
| 2 | I just learned about Hypergamy" What fucks with my head is the fact that I'm still living in my mom's basement and have no financial independence yet. " You've gotta solve this ASAP (I know you mentioned you're working on it). If you were living in your own apartment, had financial independence and had 10k subs on your Youtube account, would you really be all that bothered about hypergamy? "The best revenge is a life well-lived." Go out there and make it happen. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/20 12:24 AM |
| 6 | Cold approached and asked a girl out on coffee and got rejected.Mate, give yourself a HUGE pat on the back - this took a hell of a lot of balls. You should be really really proud of yourself. I was stuttering for my first ~30 approaches - I was so incredibly nervous I felt like vomiting the entire time, my throat was dry, I was always shaking and couldn't even think of anything to say. Use this excitement and energy to go talk to more girls. -Andy | /r/seduction | 11/06/20 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Most Pickup Artists are Theatrical Wizards who Don’t Actually Want to Get LaidYep - look at the first word in the title. " Most ". Certainly not all. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/20 12:57 AM |
| 1 | "Shes not yours but your turn" makes me not want to do anything with a womanSo because you don't like sex, it's "bullshit"? You understand just because something is your opinion, doesn't mean it's correct, right? Your worldview isn't the only worldview. -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Is she a hoe tho ?Feels like a troll post. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/20 11:23 PM |
| -1 | Is she a hoe tho ?Why can't I be both? Why do I have to "pick a side"? The world isn't black and white; it's not "us vs them". I don't like to tar everyone with the same brush. My mission is to help individual people, not fight a battle. There's a tonne of awesome people on TRP who don't hate women and are just genuine dudes looking for answers. My mission is to help THOSE dudes, and try and steer them away from the same mistakes I went through (hating women, seeing women as "the enemy" I had to conquor, etc). Ca… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/20 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Most Pickup Artists are Theatrical Wizards who Don’t Actually Want to Get Laid$3000... ouch. Reminds me of this skit: https://youtu.be/30I9uCTc_RE?t=95 (just watch from 1:35). Imagine if that brother had dropped $3000 into a gym membership + strength coach/bodybuilding coach for 2 years. Or a huge range of new clothes + haircut + stuff to groom himself with. Or a bunch of really tasty food to help make his fat-loss diet easier to stick to. etc etc. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/20 11:20 PM |
| 6 | Most Pickup Artists are Theatrical Wizards who Don’t Actually Want to Get LaidOh of course - PUA has a lot to teach. My intention wasn't to denigrate or completely write off all PUAs/PUA material. I wrote this more as a heads up to newbies who get "stuck" in PUA material for years and years and years, focusing only on the techniques... meanwhile they look like absolute shit, are 100lbs overweight, dress terribly, and wonder why no girls are jumping on their Johnson. "Oh, it's because I haven't studied hard enough and learned all the techniques properly!" So they throw the… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/20 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Most Pickup Artists are Theatrical Wizards who Don’t Actually Want to Get LaidYeah of course. I think you missed the intention of the post - which I made very clear at the start and the end. Pickup artists get laid. I just don't want to see guys getting "stuck" memorising more pickup lines, reading more material, studying even harder - and never getting out of the house and actually trying to get laid. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/20 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Most Pickup Artists are Theatrical Wizards who Don’t Actually Want to Get LaidHell yeah man - use this time productively, do whatever you can to work on yourself. The virus is like a free "monk mode" we've all been given. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/20 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Things between my (22F) GF and I (22M) haven’t been great & things feel very platonic lately; any advice would mean the world to meI was actually hoping you'd say "Yeah I guess I let myself go" - that would have made it a lot easier. You could have just improved yourself, hit the gym, dressed better, and seen what happens. I think you already know it, but your relationship is more complicated then. Have you talked to her about how you feel? I get that that's hard when you already feel like there's a huge gap between you; it's hard to turn towards the person who you feel is pushing you away. One more thing: " I understand th… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/20 03:26 PM |
| 10 | Hardcase Virgin I Mentored Finally Lost His Virginity!Awesome as hell. | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 02:52 PM |
| 1 | how does everybody pickup chicks in corona timesMy intention was not to spam, but to help the OP, man. My bad if it came across as spamming - that's the last thing I'd ever want to do. The guide I linked to is literally 100% free. -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 02:46 PM |
| 2 | How to date as a couple? MF4FYeah - I feel weird as hell if I don't mention it ASAP. Being super-upfront will scare off a couple girls - that's a good thing. It'll filter in the girls who appreciate honest and who can be upfront with you in return. Awesome. Yeah I've hit on girls on the street and I just tell them over text as like the 3rd or 4th message I send. "Yo heads up I'm in an open relationship (she's bisexual). Rather be honest and upfront, and I appreciate the same from everyone I date." -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Best way to start Foreplay the leads to sex"Want to fuck?" has been my go-to line a tonne of times. In short, if she already likes you, it doesn't really matter what you do - she's literally already in your fucking apartment/room. She already likes you. -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 12:06 PM |
| 15 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 12 Progress ReportProud of you man. Keep this up. Don't ever quit. -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys think im addicted to porn?"Hard" doesn't mean "impossible". Use this time to work on yourself - make it productive. Cut some fat, come up with a plan to hit on girls once things settle down. Install Tinder if you haven't already. Start reading through this massive Tinder guide. Don't sit around waiting for the perfect moment to get started. The perfect moment is right fucking now. -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 11:43 AM |
| 2 | What are the hardest IOIs to spot? What do they mean and how accurate are they?Not to mention, a tonne of the time you think she's giving you an "IOI" - but you completely misread the situation. Only way to know is to pull the trigger and ask for her number. | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 11:35 AM |
| 11 | Is she a hoe tho ?So because she's been on a few dates with people, you think she's a health hazard? " my gf always tell me to be nice " Why don't you try doing this? You're coming across as incredibly judgemental man. I'd rather stay with a "hoe" as you put it, rather than someone who's watching my every move and judging me for everything I do. Another question is why you've let someone stay in your house you clearly do not like or do not approve of. -Andy | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/20 11:16 AM |
| 14 | What are the hardest IOIs to spot? What do they mean and how accurate are they?IOI's don't mean jack shit. If you want to know if she's interested in you, hit on her. Stop sitting there trying to read her signals and calculate her mannerisms, as if she's a maths equation, and just ask her out for a coffee. Reminds me of this: https://pbfcomics.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/PBF267-The-Breakthrough.png -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Is it okay to not act on sexual tension?You're a woman; makes sense it's not going to feel as fun for you if you make the move. That doesn't make you feel wanted, it doesn't make you feel desired. After all, you want him to find you so utterly irresistable he literally can't help but hit on you and ask you out. That's flattering as hell, sexy as hell, validating as hell. Your last question makes no sense. You literally started this with "If I have to make a move, I'm not interested." Then "So how do I make a move?" Be more self-aware;… | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 10:17 AM |
| 2 | How to date as a couple? MF4FLol your timing is hilarious - I just started an in-depth series on How to Have 3somes. My girlfriend and I have dated/had sex with 14 girls together at this point. (There's proof in that link above). Options: - She gets her girlfriends to join you, like you're already doing - You go on tinder and find a girl for you both to play with together - She goes on Tinder and finds a girl for you both to play with. - Seduce a girl in a bar together - Go to a swingers/dating event - You could hit on a gi… | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys think im addicted to porn?Once a month? Doesn't seem like an addiction. What's your actual goal though; what do you want? All this talk of porn, why not tell us what you actually want: - To get laid a lot? - To find an awesome girlfriend? - To be a more confident, social person? - etc Stop focusing on what you DON'T want to do, and focus on what you DO want to do. -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 10:09 AM |
| 3 | Guys Who does push/pull How affective is it?Define "effective"? It's effective at wasting your time. Really, you're just adding an extra step in getting laid/finding a girlfriend - you're just being a theatrical wizard. If you genuinely enjoy push/pull just for the sake of it, then awesome - go keep doing it. But if you're doing it in order to actually get laid/find a girlfriend, you're just slowing down your own progress and getting in your own way, for no good reason. If you want to get laid a lot, or find a decent girlfriend, drop the … | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 10:06 AM |
| 4 | Fundamentals for invisible game?Being a girl. Seriously - girls "make themselves available to being hit on." You're a man - your job is to take the lead and make the moves. As /u/frogpeoplearecoming mentioned, you'll need the patience of a buddhist fucking monk if you expect to just sit around and have girls jump on your dick. Man up, take your shot, don't stress if you fail - life is all about getting rejected, learning from your failures, and pushing ahead anyway. You have unlimited tries - you can fail/get rejected 999 time… | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 10:04 AM |
| 9 | Things between my (22F) GF and I (22M) haven’t been great & things feel very platonic lately; any advice would mean the world to me" She doesn’t seem as excited to touch or kiss me anymore, and isn’t as affectionate as she used to be. " What do you look like? Are you massively overweight, or lean? Do you dress decently, or put no effort into your clothes? Do you have decent style? Do you groom yourself? etc. 9 times out of 10 when a partner says "My boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't want to sleep with me", it's because they've let themselves go. No judgement - this happened to me TWICE, and it took me years to figure out, "Oh sh… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/20 09:53 AM |
| 1 | A Friend I’m Mentoring Just Lost His Virginity!Awesome man, happy for you and your friend. I know exactly what you mean - I get more joy out of helping my mates/other people get laid than myself. Mentoring/sharing your knowledge and using it to help others feels really fucking good. Give your mate a highfive for me. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/20 09:46 AM |
| 2 | "Shes not yours but your turn" makes me not want to do anything with a womanAlready did ages ago: https://killyourinnerloser.com/shes-not-yours-its-just-your-turn/ | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 02:41 AM |
| 4 | "Shes not yours but your turn" makes me not want to do anything with a womanHere's my counter-argument against "She's not yours, it's just your turn": https://killyourinnerloser.com/shes-not-yours-its-just-your-turn/ | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 02:40 AM |
| 5 | Don’t Worry, You’re Making Progress (Bad Days are Ok.)Awesome man, go crush it tomorrow. As long as you move forward in some capacity each day, you're on the right path. "Rome wasn't built in a day", etc. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/20 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Don’t Worry, You’re Making Progress (Bad Days are Ok.)Well said. Those moments of weakness are also usually the best teaching moments - you learn the hardest life lessons when you're down. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/20 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Don’t Worry, You’re Making Progress (Bad Days are Ok.)Awesome quote. Somewhat similar: "How could youths better learn to live than by at once trying the experiment of living?" – Henry David Thoreau | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/20 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Don’t Worry, You’re Making Progress (Bad Days are Ok.)Yeah I'm not necessarily any better - I wrote this as a reminder to myself. Along with "Don't Be a Cunt to Yourself": https://killyourinnerloser.com/dont-be-a-cunt-to-yourself/ | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Don’t Worry, You’re Making Progress (Bad Days are Ok.)Yeah, me too dude. I wrote this basically as a reminder to myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?You're a million miles ahead of the average guy, and miles ahead of 99% of people on here. | /r/seduction | 06/06/20 09:28 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouIf it makes you feel better, I upvoted you. You probably got downvoted for using the word "friend", but I understood your sentiment - basically don't be a dick, and if she likes you, cool. If she doesn't, there's more fish in the sea. Pretty much what you meant, yeah? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/20 07:26 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouAt what point did I say "I just want a quickie"? In fact, I advocate for literally the opposite. Are you arguing against something you imagined I said? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/20 06:55 AM |
| 3 | The SMV Requirement Bar - Why It's Completely Normal To Get Almost No Results At First And Why You Should Never Get DiscouragedSexual Market Value. Another way of saying "how much girls will want to sleep with you/date you". Basically, your worth. | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 01:48 AM |
| 1 | The SMV Requirement Bar - Why It's Completely Normal To Get Almost No Results At First And Why You Should Never Get DiscouragedSexual Market Value. Another way of saying "how much girls will want to sleep with you/date you". Basically, your worth. | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 01:47 AM |
| 2 | The SMV Requirement Bar - Why It's Completely Normal To Get Almost No Results At First And Why You Should Never Get DiscouragedSolid post. | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Newbies Should Do Whatever it Takes to Get LaidThis. If I help even one person with this post, I'm happy. Even if it means 90 people hate it, as long as one person improves themselves from it and becomes a better human being, it was worth it. | /r/seduction | 04/06/20 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Newbies Should Do Whatever it Takes to Get Laid"Fake it til you become it" is more accurate, and a good motto for life in general. Nobody knows what they're doing when they first start something new; you have to kinda fake it for a bit. But eventually you gain experience, gain confidence, and you literally BECOME the confident person you were trying to fake. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Newbies Should Do Whatever it Takes to Get LaidYeah man, never lead a woman on - honesty is always the best policy: https://killyourinnerloser.com/honesty/ | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Newbies Should Do Whatever it Takes to Get LaidCheers man, particularly the last part about honesty and not manipulating. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Approach Anxiety program - Day 2Good work. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 01:27 PM |
| -9 | Newbies Should Do Whatever it Takes to Get LaidDo you care about getting laid, or "not looking too needy"? | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Newbies Should Do Whatever it Takes to Get LaidEssentially your answer to "I want to get laid" is "Stop focusing on getting laid"? | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 12:15 PM |
| -4 | Newbies Should Do Whatever it Takes to Get LaidAbsolutely - this is all just a big experiment. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 12:12 PM |
| -7 | Newbies Should Do Whatever it Takes to Get LaidSo depressing | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 11:55 AM |
| -5 | Newbies Should Do Whatever it Takes to Get Laid"Hard" doesn't mean "impossible". Make a move, man - rejection is nowhere near as bad as regret. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 11:38 AM |
| 4 | Newbies Should Do Whatever it Takes to Get LaidInteresting that's where your mind immediately leaps to. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 11:35 AM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 6 Progress ReportKeep it up mate. -Andy | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 11:13 AM |
| 3 | IRL vs Tinder (and dating apps in general)If you wanna get better at Tinder, follow this. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Approach Anxiety program - Day 1First drill was horrifying - I struggled for hours. Yeah I was anxious. It was about 4 years ago. I kept a log of everything I did,that will give you a better idea of what I went through (I posted in it every day, and did blog-style videos). Reddit won't let me post a link to it on here - keeps getting deleted. Ive sent you a PM with the link. If anyone else wants me to pm it to them too, tell me. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Approach Anxiety program - Day 1Not much. I talk to the occasional girl I see, but I'm too busy focused on my website + I get laid enough from Tinder with zero effort. | /r/seduction | 03/06/20 12:26 AM |
| 7 | Approach Anxiety program - Day 1Awesome man. I went through the program myself. It absolutely changed my life - I wouldn't be where I am today without it. It'll change yours too - if you stick with it. Literally the only metric for success is "I will never quit". The guys who make it are just the guys who never stop. Any questions, ask away. -Andy | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Approach Anxiety program - Day 1Google "Good Looking Loser Approach Anxiety Program". | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Approach Anxiety program - Day 1Go out and there and get it done. You got this. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Approach Anxiety program - Day 1Sssshh baby boy everything will be ok. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Approach Anxiety program - Day 1Well said. | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?Just turned 33. Yeah, if you're 18, you're obviously not going to have 140 lays (that would probaby count as a "seriously fucked-up sex addiction")... hence why I say don't compare your lay count to mine. If you wanna compare yourself, I was a virgin until 19, so congrats! You're kicking my ass. The "quality vs quantity" thing isn't so black and white. Because ironically, the more lays you have the higher the quality becomes. The more girls you meet, the more confident you are - and the easier i… | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?I'm glad. Now go get started and actually work towards what you want. Set some goals, take tiny little baby steps towards them every day. You got this. | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?Get after it man, no reason you can't do the same thing. I wrote literally every single step: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?I bang most girls within a few minutes of meeting them (via Tinder). Usually invite them straight to my apartment. If you're asking about cold approach, then within about 2hrs: https://killyourinnerloser.com/that-time-i-banged-a-girl-i-just-met/ | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?eyyyyyyy | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 11:30 AM |
| 12 | Is there anyone here who GENUINELY went from loser to champ? How did you do it? Where did you start, and what does your success look like now?Started out fat as hell, depressed, suicidal, horrible with women. My transformation: https://killyourinnerloser.com/my-transformation Lays now: Roughly 140, including 13 threesomes. Proof: https://killyourinnerloser.com/proof Confidence: As you'd expect, high. I used to absolutely hate myself and contemplated suicide daily; now I wake up every day grateful to be alive. Getting laid, and improving myself, absolutely saved me from a life of misery and probably suicide. -Andy | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 11:29 AM |
| 2 | You Can't Force Someone to Like You^ No reason you can't chase the neutral ones, for sure. Some dudes love the thrill of the chase, winning a girl over, making her like them. They love converting a "neutral" girl into a "yes" girl. My post is more focused on the girls that AREN'T into you (not neutral girls). The girls that, no matter how hard you try, you'll NEVER win over. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouCheers mate. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 10:42 PM |
| 1 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouNot at all - at no point have I ever said not to improve - that's the complete polar opposite of my (self-improvement) website. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouThere's a lot of good stuff in the self-help industry, to be fair. Just gotta wade through the crap to find it. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouYeah man - I'm here to help people not sell shit (though full disclosure I obviously make money on the side through counselling/coaching), as I've talked about here. As for pickup artists: Most Pickup Artists are Theatrical Wizards who Don’t Actually Want to Get Laid PUAs have some good concept but for the most part a lot of it is about deceiving and not being honest. -Andy | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 07:48 AM |
| 2 | The Solution to All Your Problems [Serious]Cheers for sharing. -Andy | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 02:54 AM |
| 1 | The Solution to All Your Problems [Serious]Which is whyI also wrote this. -Andy | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 02:54 AM |
| 1 | The Solution to All Your Problems [Serious]Talk to more girls, improve yourself, become better looking - talking to girls while looking like a fat sack of shit isn't going to get you laid. -Andy | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 02:53 AM |
| 12 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouI know The Rational Male has said it: https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/25/the-desire-dynamic/ I think he got it from like David DeAngelo or something? I'm sure someone will correct me on that. -Andy | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/20 02:46 AM |
| 5 | You Can't Force Someone to Like You^ Oh for sure - game, looks, confidence, etc is important. Social skills are important. Learning how to make jokes and not take yourself so seriously when you're hitting on girls is important. Etc. The point is: Even with all those bases covered, even if you make yourself into a top-level dude... some girls still aren't going to be into you. You can't win 'em all. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/20 02:45 AM |
| 8 | You Can't Force Someone to Like You^ Yep, and overanalysing "what you could have done better". It becomes harmful when PUAs say "It's your fault she didn't give you her number - you need to work even harder on your game." Yes, game is important - as are looks, confidence, etc. But you can't win over EVERY girl, and to imply that you could is misleading at best and actively deceitful at worst. (Particularly when most PUAs sell their coaching program as the "solution" - eg, "pay me money and I'll help you win over EVERY girl and ne… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/20 02:44 AM |
| 5 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouYeah, damn straight. No more jumping through hoops, no more being desperate to please - at that point it's just about seeing who's into you. Any girls that aren't, no hard feelings - plenty more fish in the sea: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6FdF5H9YsY | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/20 02:42 AM |
| 2 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouThen get better - improve your looks. Literally every step you need to take is laid out right there, for free. No excuses. Go do it. -Andy | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 02:11 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouAbsolutely - I absolutely push improving your looks and your attractiveness. -Andy | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 02:11 AM |
| 3 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouHave used "tuna taco" many a time, still banged, this is fake news. (Maybe it won't work on a vegan chick tho? Will try out tomorrow and report back if I get slapped). | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 02:09 AM |
| 3 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouAbsolutely agree re: cleaning house; I literally wrote a huge section on that in my Tinder guide. I've seen some fucking knarly places in my time too. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 02:09 AM |
| 3 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouAmen. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 02:07 AM |
| 3 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouDone. Let's see how badly-received it is over there, lol. -Andy | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 12:23 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Force Someone to Like You^Absolutely; that's literally the core of what I tell dudes to work on - looking good matters most. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 12:23 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Force Someone to Like YouI ain't anything special. -Andy | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Anxiety Doesn’t Go Away (You Just Stop Caring)Yep - regrets sucks a million times more than rejection. | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety Doesn’t Go Away (You Just Stop Caring)Do a full-on approach anxiety program to fix it. Google "good looking loser approach anxiety program". It's completely free (no bullshit), I didn't the exact same program myself. -Andy | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety Doesn’t Go Away (You Just Stop Caring)^ Yeah damn straight - guys expect they'll go from 0 to 100 instantly. "If I don't get a number today, I'm a failure". When in reality, the fact you even left your house and tried to go talk to girls puts you a million miles ahead of the average man. -Andy | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | I feel like i need to start from 0 with women. Where is a good place to learn basic outer game?Absolute basics, including improving your appearance, losing fat, gaining muscle, fixing any mental hurdles you may have, meeting girls, going on dates, having sex, retaining them afterwards, etc: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide (Even if you want to get laid with cold approach instead of Tinder, use the guide). -Andy | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 11:00 PM |
| 39 | My first approach and Starting One Year Long Cold Approach Challenge with at least 5 approaches a dayGood work mate - if you stick at it for a year, this will absolutely change your life. -Andy | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | How To Get Rid Of Feeling Creepy, Awkward, Weird, etc, When Approaching?Hope it helped man. | /r/seduction | 19/05/20 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps are bullshitHow about you quit bitching and actually put in the work to get laid on Tinder? | /r/seduction | 19/05/20 03:03 AM |
| 1 | The mod sucksYeah man quarantine is a weird subject at the moment - Youtube are censoring people, Twitter's taking down posts, a tonne of other subreddits have banned all talk about it. I hate censorship, so I empathise. I'm sure the mod(s) didn't do it to spite you though; I moderate on another forum (not on Reddit) that only has like 30,000 members... I can't imagine what it'd be like moderating for 500,000 people. That said, sorry your post was taken down. It sucks when you put effort into something and i… | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | The mod sucksGot examples? Hard to know what you're referring to without context. And to be fair, moderating a 500,000-member-sub can't exactly be easy. Is it just one mod here, or multiple? -Andy | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Don't buy pick up artists programs. they are not qualified to give advice!Most pickup artists are theatrical wizards who don't actually want to get laid. -Andy | /r/seduction | 14/05/20 01:20 PM |
| 3 | The Brain is the biggest sex organ! Female here sharing my own experience— what has been extremely effective with me."Your conversation cannot consist simply of “i’m thirsty wanna fuck?” It’s boring and comes across as needy and desperate." You, being only *one* person, are confident speaking to what will work for *all* women? I appreciate that you've put a lot of effort into your post, and I don't want this to come across as negative - that's not my intention. But don't mix up what will work *for you*, vs what works for *other girls*. You're only one person; and I'm sure this isn't going to be too radical: ot… | /r/seduction | 14/05/20 02:11 AM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Awesome - now start applying those details and start working on yourself. You got this. -Andy | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | The biggest and best guide to self improvement and also getting laid via apps I've ever found"that both matter and both will help you, so why not combine both?" Because I've gotten laid 140+ times without it, including 3somes, BDSM, kinky sex, etc - proof: https://killyourinnerloser.com/proof Every single one of my clients and mates who gets laid, doesn't use "tactics" or "game". It's not even remotely necessary if you just make yourself above-average in looks and go play the numbers game (hit on as many women as you possibly can, then hit on some more). Neither does the guy I learned i… | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | The only type of girls that like me that I don't likeYou definitely do NOT have to wait til you're muscular. Read this (scroll down to the "Marketing Yourself" section, where I have a pic of what I used to look like). See how shit I used to look? No muscle whatsover. But I worked my ass off to take the best pics I could at the time, even though I wasn't muscular. I dressed well, had semi-decent pics, and more than anything I spent a tonne of time messaging girls, getting matches (by buying Boosts), using every dating app (Hinge, Bumble, OkCupid, P… | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 02:11 PM |
| 1 | The biggest and best guide to self improvement and also getting laid via apps I've ever foundLol why are you archiving my site? I'm not dying or something. As for "not perfect or right about everything"? How dare you, sir. In all seriousness, read these two: This is All Just a Big Experiment Oh No, You’ve Angered the Gods! I write for my site to share what's gotten me laid, what's gotten my clients laid, what's gotten my mates laid. It's not the only way to get laid - anybody who tells you they have the "secret" or that "you must do x y z in order to get laid" is bullshitting you (and u… | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Tinder is great for recon!!Do you get laid on Tinder? | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Tinder is great for recon!!Do you get laid on Tinder? | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Tinder is great for recon!!^ This guy gets it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 01:56 PM |
| 1 | The only type of girls that like me that I don't likeStart here. That'll cover absolutely every aspect of improving your looks, taking better photos, getting matches, etc. You need to start working on yourself - improve your looks, hit the gym, dress better, lose a bit of fat. You don't have to look like a super stud, but if you're not getting many Tinder matches, *fix it by working on yourself\*. Start right now. -Andy | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Ghosted after online hinge dateYo man, congrats! You put yourself out there and had the balls to have a date - you took your shot. She wasn't all that into you - no stress. Plenty of other girls who will be. I know rejection hurts, but read this. Then give yourself a pat on the bat. You have balls; more balls than 99% of men. Now go out there and talk to more girls; the only way to dull the sting of rejection is to keep moving forward and keep hitting on more girls. You got this. -Andy | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 11:25 AM |
| 2 | The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you.Yep - basically everything I wrote here. I call it "Having your shit together" - including hobbies, friends, adventures you go on, trying new activities you've never done before, etc. While in quarantine, if you're stuck for ideas on things to try, follow these 2 Youtube channels: https://www.youtube.com/user/microboyd https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6MXE0Px3m1aI4vI0pLWzQg The first link especially - he's fucking amazing. He's taught himself so many weird skills just by "brute forcing" them - … | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 11:34 PM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Cheers mate. I think you're overthinking the 3some thing - I'm talking casual sex 3somes, not "We have kids and we're trying to juggle a menage-a-trois" scenarios. | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 09:36 PM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Cheers | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Why I don't think TRP works on some if not most women and why you don't need to turn to it.Maybe. And being honest/upfront works on the vast majority of women too. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/20 04:18 AM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)This might help: https://killyourinnerloser.com/hopeless-and-helpless/ | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 11:23 PM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)You got this, man. Start right now. | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 11:53 AM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)It's not over yet. As long as there's breath in your body, keep on fighting. -Andy | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 11:42 AM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)I can't give you advice without knowing what you look like + how you dress. Feel free to PM me photos if you want advice. -Andy | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 07:26 AM |
| 3 | How to Pose for PhotosHey mate, got you covered: How to Pose In that link, I've listed a bunch of links to give you examples of people posing. Essentially, just try a bunch of poses and see what looks best. If you're nervous about posing or worried about looking silly, don't stress - you can't expect to be perfect at this at the start. Keep practicing, keep taking more photos, and you'll improve over time. -Andy | /r/seduction | 10/05/20 06:20 AM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Google "Good Looking Loser Approach Anxiety Program". | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 11:48 PM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Porn: Yeah that's a bitch. I struggled with it for ages. I'm assuming you've been to yourbrainonporn.com ? There's also counsellors/self-help groups who specifically specialise in porn addiction - might be worth doing some research. Your biggest problem sounds like not being able to speak German - dude you have to change that right fucking now. (Or move countries). Start studying, even just 10 minutes a day. Literally just 10 minutes - it'll add up day by day, week by week. Then go outside every… | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 11:22 PM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Read this: "How to Stop Feeling Guilty For Prioritizing Your Sex Life (When You Think You Should Be Doing Other Things)" | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 11:22 PM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)I'm gonna copy-paste what I wrote to another commenter: Spend the rest of 2020 working on yourself. Handle the basics - if you're fat, lose weight: Count your calories and aim for less than 1800 (the actual number will vary depending on your bodytype/exercise/etc). Or try keto diet. Find whatever diet works for you - whichever diet you can stick to. If you dress poorly, fix it. Go to a decent clothing store (doesn't have to be expensive, just decent clothes), try on a bunch of outfits and take p… | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 11:20 PM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)It's never too old man. 30 is the PERFECT age especially for younger chicks. Read this. I love cold approach but Tinder/Hinge is just mad efficient for me; it takes basically 0 effort, I get laid 100 times more often, get to screen for girls into BDSM/my other fetishes. It's great. -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Before you deleted your reply you said you live in a town of 5 5 million people. I actually moved to the centre of my city (I live on the main street) in order to finally take my sex life seriously and get it handled. It took me like a year to work up the courage to move here (It was fucking SCARY to finally admit, "Ok, I actually want to get laid.") If you want to get laid a lot, you cannot live in a city with 90,000 people. Notice I said "a lot" - if you only want to get laid every now and the… | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 11:13 PM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)story im 23 currently i felt a slight bit of hope You got this. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)I haven't deleted any reply - looks like one of the mods is shadow-banning some of my replies? What the fuck? I can still see my own replies but some of them are hidden for other people. -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 11:04 PM |
| 12 | How I succeeded in datingPositive reinforcement/more evidence is always useful. Cheers for posting it. -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 09:20 PM |
| 5 | Being ugly doesn’t give you an excuse to hate womenBeing ugly is the best reason/motivation to knuckle down and start working on yourself. OP: Why can't you improve yourself man? You said, "I'll probably always be a virgin" - why can't you change that? I'm not saying it's easy. It will likely take a year of hard work - maybe 2. But why have you given up? Watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPnWbj70TTY And the follow-up video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xOVEkogq5QQ -Andy | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Awesome. Baby steps, remember. The reason you've been feeling overwhelmed is because you've been focusing on the long road ahead. That's intimidating as hell - you're only going to beat yourself down and think, "I have too many things to change, I can't possibly succeed." Just focus on one thing at a time - one baby step each day. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 01:34 PM |
| 5 | Why I don't think TRP works on some if not most women and why you don't need to turn to it.Oh my god, I just found this sub, and I've found my new home. I've spent the last year blogging about the perils of the red pill, holy god. TRP definitely does work on women - and works really well. I did it for a couple of years, I wrote about it here. I'm so bloody glad I've moved on. The thing is, it works on a certain type of women - girls who are either ok with being fucked with/playing games, and girls who are too nice/polite to tell you to go fuck yourself for being a raging dickhead. Whe… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/20 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Why I don't think TRP works on some if not most women and why you don't need to turn to it.^ I spent an hour on FDS reading and my impression was "This is very negative and bitter - as negative as TRP." I'll add in the caveat I was literally only on there for an hour, max; probably not enough time to form a super strong opinion of a huge group of people. I think the issue is rational people like yourself get "shouted over" by the loud, vocal extremists. Same thing happens on TRP - plenty of rational people on there, but you kinda have to push aside all the angry dudes just to spot the… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/20 11:57 AM |
| 7 | How do you act when your SO is acting odd? I don’t want to fall back into nexting if I don’t have to^ This. Talk to her. That's literally it - use your words. If you haven't had a lot of practice being super open with your girl, don't stress if you're nervous/unsure how to phrase it/not sure how to broach the topic. It doesn't have to be smooth, you don't have to phrase things perfectly, it's ok you feel a bit weird bringing it up. Just start with something like: "Hey honey I noticed you didn't message me today. I kinda missed it - I really like the fact you message me first. I don't wanna sou… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/05/20 11:44 AM |
| 6 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Here's a good argument: Shut the fuck up and do the work. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 10:37 AM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)^ Absolutely will do. Same goes if you're in Melb - message me. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 10:36 AM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)In the interests of full disclosure, definitely had an intention - to help as many people as I possibly could. Not because I'm a selfless, wonderful, amazing human being. No - I'm as selfish as everyone else. Probably more so, because I'm not pathologically in denial of my own selfishness. Helping people makes me feel fucking amazing, which is why I do it. I'm incredibly selfish with the help I give - I literally only do it because it makes me feel amazing to see another human being get his shit… | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 08:52 AM |
| -1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Did writing any of this make your life any better? -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Are there any practical good/real sex education videos for demo and that's not porn?Just want to grab some clarification on this: Sidebar says: "Seddit is not an advertisement forum. Blatant advertisement of products that cost money will be deleted. Any information posted should be aimed at helping progress our member's abilities in the arts of seduction. A specific reason why the link is helpful to sedditors should be clear. Any links must lead to actual content, not advertising or simply a homepage." Nothing in my post sells products that cost money. The links I included did … | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 08:37 AM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Yep, a decent amount of them at this point (12 different girls, usually having repeat 3somes with the same girls many times). I've just started a 5-part 3somes guide; first part will be out within a month (roughly). But essentially the easiest way to have a 3some is every girl you sleep with, say this when you're cuddling in bed after sex: "Ever fooled around with a girl, or thought about it?" When you're dating 2 girls who both say yes to this, great! Show them each other's pics, say, "We'll ha… | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 08:29 AM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Fucking awesome. Being 18 (you already know this) - you have your entire life ahead of you. If you really dig in and start going hardcore with your self-improvement, by 25 you could have an elite sex life/amazing girlfriend/whatever you want. Plus own your own business that fully pays all your bills. Your own apartment, living by yourself, wherever you want. A friendship circle of guys who push you to be a better person, and who would take a bullet for you. A killer body (strong as hell, fit as … | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 08:25 AM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Inner game - hard to know what's actually plaguing you without you being more specific. Feel free to elaborate and I'll try and help. Text game - work on it if it genuinely makes you happy. But read these 3 articles first: https://killyourinnerloser.com/pickup-artists-are-theatrical-wizards/ https://killyourinnerloser.com/talking-with-girls-isnt-making-progress/ https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-3/#12-hingetinderbumble-template In short: text game is not even remotely required to get… | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 08:20 AM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Being patient and taking things 1 step at a time is the secret to self-improvement. You can have literally anything - you just have to a) take tiny little baby steps towards it each day and b) never ever ever ever ever quit. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 08:10 AM |
| 3 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)+1 for learning to be a more stoic human being. It's usually looked at as a "male" trait but that's bullshit - everyone benefits from being more grounded and resilient and less emotionally-reactive. Self-awareness in general is something you absolutely have to foster. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 08:07 AM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)^ Disagree with "not a lot to do for you". Women can do a shitload: Lose fat Hit the gym to gain a bit of muscle (to look toned) Improve sleep so you're more happy, more full of energy, and look better Read a bunch of books and become more worldly Learn to be an amazing cook Work on becoming more pleasant and easy to be around, and also more calm/grounded. "Don't Sweat the Small Things" is a good start. So is "5-minute Meditator". Dress better. This will become even easier as you lose fat and to… | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 08:03 AM |
| 5 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)/u/ImJustSo and u/Helmet_Icicle gave you the best advice you're ever going to hear. Self-improvement for women is the same as self-improvement for men. Yes, some things are slightly different (you probably don't want to gain 20kg of muscle), but for the most part, it's all about handling the foundations of your life: Friends who care about you and support you; and more to the point, tell you the truth instead of telling you what they think you want to hear. Hobbies - something that gives you enj… | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 07:54 AM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)I hope you take this to heart, and use it as motivation to quit complaining and start working on yourself: There’s a 95% Chance You Won’t Listen to Anything I Say Key point: You know you're choosing to be unhappy, right? | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 07:31 AM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)So glad you're not headed down that path man. How are things for you now? -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 07:30 AM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Appreciate your username. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 07:30 AM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Lol you fucking serious, Vic park as well? That's mad. If you're living at home, I can't lie - you're playing on hard mode, for all the reasons I listed here. "Hard" doesn't mean "impossible" though. It depends on what you're comfortable with. Can you: Have the place to yourself at any point; do your parents ever leave? Just invite girls around then. Do you have a car? I've fooled around and had sex in the back of cars. I'm NOT advising you to do this (since it's technically illegal), but I hear… | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 07:28 AM |
| 0 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)There's dick pumps and penis-extenders you can buy. Bare in mind: a) They cost a bit of money ($200, roughly) b) They're not an easy fix - it takes 6 months to a year to notice results. And you have to be consistent with them (using them 5+ days a week). c) A bunch of people will try to sell them to you and make money off you. d) They usually add an inch, maybe 2 inches if you're lucky. They won't take you from 2 inches to 9 inches. I own one myself (I talk about it on my site but I'm not going … | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 04:38 AM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Oh for sure - My tinder pics could be better. I literally discuss that here. Don't forget though, if I was 5'8 and had to try harder - then I would have just tried harder. I would have taken even better pics, fixed the things that were stopping me getting laid, etc. Yeah I started getting laid with a bit less effort than a 5'8 guy - but so what? If I was short I would have just had to wait an extra 6 months while I improved myself even more. It would have just delayed my success, not inhibited i… | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Yeah I absolutely got your point - I should be grateful to my parents. And hell yeah, I am. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 03:27 AM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Cheers man, that's fucking awesome of you. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 03:17 AM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Welcome. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Welcome. Go kick some ass with your goals. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Perth! I lived in Freo for about 8 years, then in Mt Lawley for a while and Vic Park for a couple years. You north or south of the river? I moved to Melb a few years back. I tell you what, I miss the beaches in WA - beaches here suck ass. If you wanna go find a photographer in Perth to take some photos, I wrote a massive checklist you can use to make sure you're getting the most out of them: go through this (there's a posing guide in that link too). -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 03:02 AM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)That means a lot. Cheers. Go kick some fucking ass. -Andy | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 12:59 AM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Hah, already got you covered there, son ;) You're so Lucky... I Can't Get Laid Because I'm Short I Can't Get Laid Because I'm Not White | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 10:46 PM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Thanks man. Every now and then (probably once a year) I look back at where I started and don't really recognise the old me. I can't believe there was ever a time I was so unhappy I wanted to kill myself - it's terrifying to think about all the good times I would have missed out on. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Well I definitely did more than 1%, but I get your sentiments. My parents are great people, and I tell my mum multiple times a year something along the lines of, "I'm so incredibly grateful you two are my parents. My life is a blessing and I'm really glad you made me. Cheers." | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 10:40 PM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Hah, hey. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 10:38 PM |
| 6 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)I'm actually in the middle of writing an article "Don't Kill Yourself." It's not finished yet, might be another couple of weeks (I need to finish another related article first). I'll just copy-paste what I have from it so far: ----------- Hey you. I know you're feeling pretty fucking shitty right now - and you've been feeling shitty for a long time. In fact, maybe you can't even remember a time when you didn't feel shitty. You look around at everyone else and they all seem happy - which only mak… | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 10:37 PM |
| 5 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)^ Yeah, but read again - it was an abusive relationship. I know I didn't make that very clear (I'm writing an article called "My history of abusive relationships"). It wasn't pretty, man; she was evil as shit, and I was pretty evil back. I'm talking violence, hateful verbal abuse, all sorts of threats, etc. Definitely made my life hell, and definitely not something to hold up as a shining example of happiness. That said, I get your sentiments - we're not talking about me, we're talking about you… | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 10:23 PM |
| 3 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Don't give up, bruh! You ran into some hurdles - pick yourself up and try again. Re: not knowing how to seduce women by talking/texting; You really don't have to. My conversations are pretty brief on Tinder. I've got a bunch of screenshots here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-3/#12-hingetinderbumble-template Essentially, just: Hey, you’re sexy. I’m [your name]. Watcha up to? [Respond to her message]. What do you like to do for fun? [Respond to her message]. I’m into [hobbies you’re … | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 10:15 PM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)re Chris Pratt: You're like the 5th person to say that. Bruh that's an insane squat. My squat has always been my weakest - current max is 270lbs (it'll be less now because no gym with lockdown). I'm assuming you were weak when you started? Fucking impressive. Glad to hear you're improving the lives of your mates too. You said negativity spreads like a virus - dude, so does positivity. One guy gets his shit together, his mates see it and wanna try it too. They start telling other people who wanna… | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 09:55 PM |
| 5 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)450,000 words of free content, indeed. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 09:50 PM |
| 7 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)How does any of this ranting about me help you improve your life? | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 09:42 PM |
| 12 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Who hurt you, man? I have 430,000+ words of free content on my website. Nothing is locked behind a paywall. I offer paid coaching on the side. Enjoy the rest of your day. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 09:34 PM |
| 17 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)I actually really like that this bot is here. Thanks, nice bot. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Fucking baller. I usually don't even bother suggesting it to most guys because for most of them, even me suggesting it is fucking heresy. "What, a woman that's TALLER than me? But then I'd have to look UP at her or something! Ahhh!" | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 09:28 PM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Don't stress - lockdown won't be forever. Hit him up soon as you can. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 09:27 PM |
| 5 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)^ This. Just because you're short doesn't mean you can't get laid or have relationships. You may have to hit on 3x as many girls as a tall guy - cool, go out and hit on 3x as many girls. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 09:25 PM |
| 8 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Not sure I get your question. As in, self-improvement for women to improve themselves? Or self-improvement for you to get more women? | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 01:31 PM |
| 1 | 3rd date in a week, no kissing. Asked me out to breakfastYou say "she gave me just a kiss on the cheek" twice - but did you actually try to kiss her? You haven't mentioned it so I'm assuming not. You've gotta make the moves, mate. You're the man - in 99.9% of cases, nothing will happen unless you make the move. -Andy | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 12:48 PM |
| 5 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Yeah, if you're shorter you're definitely working with a handicap - but we all have handicaps. Mine was all the stuff I wrote above. You'll have to work harder, no doubt - but that doesn't mean you can't get laid. I do a bit of life coaching sometimes - two of my coaching clients are shorter dudes - one is 5'7, one 5'6. One was a virgin in his 30's when he first started seeing me; he's since gotten laid about 5 times now (over the course of a year). He absolutely had to work harder than a tall g… | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 12:43 PM |
| 19 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)I'm 32. I started most of the self-improvement stuff when I was about 24 until probably 26. Then I had a couple years where I was kinda just in "cruise-control" and a bit lazy. When I was 28 I started working on getting laid and hitting the gym. Took probably 2-3 years of hitting the gym (I'm naturally incredibly weak). I'm 6ft2 (In my experience the only reason people ask me my height is so they can say, "Well I'm not that tall, so it's easy for him - therefore, I don't have to try." Read this,… | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 12:14 PM |
| 1 | "Maybe"Maybe is almost always a "no". What you wrote is great - "I don't do maybes. Yes or no?" Read this by mark manson: Fuck Yes or No -Andy | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 11:05 AM |
| 3 | How To Get Rid Of Feeling Creepy, Awkward, Weird, etc, When Approaching?My first ~50 approaches were HORRIBLE. I'm talking sweating, shaking, I once forgot my own name when she asked, and the entire time I'd feel like I was going to vomit. Sometimes I would walk around for hours and hours and hours not talking to a single girl - my worst day I walked around for EIGHT HOURS without hitting on ANYONE. I felt like the biggest loser in the universe. But guess what? None of that mattered - even though I was awful at it, the 26th girl I hit on gave me her number (even tho… | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching but as a disadvantage.So what's your actual question? How to improve your looks? | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 10:46 AM |
| 7 | How to talk to a girl who doesn't go out at all?^ This - just go the direct route. Ask her out for coffee/a drink/whatever. If she says yes, awesome. If she says no, pat yourself on the back for having the balls to ask her. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 10:45 AM |
| 5 | How to seduce my neighborYou can't make her like you - she either does, or doesn't. Ask her out - "Hey I was thinking, we should grab a drink sometime. Free friday night?" If you're nervous, even if you stutter, that's totally ok - you don't have to be perfect. Nervously asking her out is a billion times better than never asking her out at all (speaking from experience, not asking a girl out fills you full of regret). If she says no, don't stress - there's plenty more fish in the sea. If she says yes, congrats! Either w… | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 10:44 AM |
| 3 | If you were to recommend your favorite book to read what would it be?Self-improvement/depression: You Can't Afford the Luxury of a Negative Thought. The 5-Minute Meditator. Don't Sweat the Small Stuff. Goals: The Slight Edge. Mini-habits. Women: No More Mr Nice Guy | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 08:49 AM |
| 2 | I do awful on tinder, Do I have a better chance just going up to girls irl?You hate dating apps, or you hate that you don't do well on them? There's a world of difference between the two. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 08:42 AM |
| 1 | What are some mildly intimate questions you can ask?Well, how big is it? | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do I feel attracted to girls with tattoos, 1000 cock stare, potential Alpha widows, potential promiscuous, experienced and at least over 23 years old?Cheers man. Will do. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 11:29 AM |
| 10 | Realized I am a beta orbiter.The water droplets are going into the head of the cock. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 11:28 AM |
| 5 | Seduction: Dealing with the guilt of feeling manipulativeYou sound like a catch - and I'm not being facetious. Whether you know it or not (I think you're well-aware), you're top 1% of men just by virtue of having most of your life handled already - and being pretty decent to the chicks you bang (hanging out, cooking dinner, sleeping over, etc). So this really could just be a shitty thing where a bunch of girls are going to fall for you and want to "change" you, because you're worth the risk - it's worth them "wasting" 6 months trying to change you, ev… | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 11:06 AM |
| 1 | How many friends should you have/is best to have?I only have 3 mates - guys who'd literally take a bullet for me (and I would for them). We've been mates for about 7 years now. I've always had about 3 friends - I don't like having a big social group, it just doesn't suit me. I prefer keeping to myself a lot of the time and doing my own thing - I'd actually get annoyed if I had too many friends hitting me up to hangout. As u/bayfarm said, quality over quantity. Do whatever makes you happy. If you're happy with 3-4 friends, you can definitely ha… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 10:49 AM |
| 2 | If you lose any type of battle does that make you beta?Dude, failure is inevitable. Losing battles is inevitable. It's not about "never losing" - it's about picking yourself up after a loss and going to battle again. AKA, never fucking quitting. Imma quote Rocky here: " But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done! " | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 10:42 AM |
| 4 | Looking for advice on how to answer the question so “what do you do” ?Dude what the fuck, you have the coolest job ever. You literally save people's fucking lives. Tell her the truth. When I read the title, I expected you to say you were unemplyed or homeless or something. You have a really cool job, man. Be proud of it - brag about it. Also, nothing wrong with being a security guard. Dunno why you're so ashamed of your occupations. -Andy | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 10:12 AM |
| 35 | Why do I feel attracted to girls with tattoos, 1000 cock stare, potential Alpha widows, potential promiscuous, experienced and at least over 23 years old?" Like everything TRP advocates against. " TRP is a set of guidelines; it's not a dogma you must follow. At the end of the day it's your life - do what makes you happy. If you want "bad girls" (girls with tatts, clearly sexually-experienced) then fucking go for it. I love those girls myself. To actually answer your question as to why you're attracted to them - because they're hot. They scream sexuality. Generally speaking, they'll be easier to fuck (vs a super shy bookworm virgin). Your dick kno… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 10:04 AM |
| 65 | Realized I am a beta orbiter.Woah cowboy, you've literally only just started texting her. You're not a beta orbiter yet - that phrase kinda implies it's been going on for ages. Cut yourself some slack, bud. What's your plan - to actually meet her and bang? Or are you just looking to talk dirty for a bit online only? You haven't mentioned your actual goal. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 09:54 AM |
| 2 | What's more important is WHO to date rather than HOW to dateInteresting idea. Main question is - can you get a big enough userbase for it to be worth using the app? I've seen a hell of a lot of apps come and go in the last ~5 years - a lot of them have unique ideas (eg CoffeeMeetsBagel having a limited number of curated likes per day), but they just don't have enough users on them. Hard to go on a date if there's only 5 users in your entire city... What's your userbase like now (compared to Hinge/Bumble/Tinder)? I understand if you can't share these numb… | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 09:23 AM |
| 2 | How to pull in quarantine?Absolutely possible - you'll just have to talk to 10x the number of girls you normally would. And don't be disheartened when most of them don't want to meet you. I'm still getting laid (just at like 1/10th the rate I normally would), and so are my mates (again, at like 1/10th the normal rate). When times are hard, work harder. -Andy | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Plate demands replyYou don't have time to write "Ok"? | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 09:06 AM |
| 0 | Plate demands replyIt's your life - stress about "beta" vs "alpha" all you want, but ignoring girls for 2 days is going to add drama to your life. My mission has always been to avoid drama - I don't give a shit whether an action is "beta". If you don't care about avoiding drama to the level I do, then go for it (again, it's your life - it's not up to me to tell you what to do). | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 09:02 AM |
| -1 | Probably stupid but saw girlfriend send ex a meme on IG, what would you guys do?Talk to her, man - she's your fucking girlfriend. You've known her for 7 months. We aren't talking about some random side-girl. Just bring it up - "Yo, I'm gonna sound like a giant pussy but whatever. Saw you sending some memes to your ex and it made me feel kinda funny. I should have been more clear with my boundaries at the start. I don't want to be that controlling dickhead but at the same time I don't wanna sit here bottling stuff up. We don't have to talk about it at great length or anythin… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 08:12 AM |
| 6 | A girl asked " is there anything about me you'd like to know" What the hell would I even ask?"Tell me your bank login and password" "Ever tried BDSM, or wanted to try it?" "What do you want most out of life?" "Ever fooled around with another girl, or thought about it?" Doesn't really matter what the hell you reply - she's just making conversation. Don't overthink it man - just say anything, or "Nah but if I think of something, I'll ask". There's no right answer, this isn't a test. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Is blocking a female justifiable?Well, you seem pretty rational and level-headed based on comments here. Doesn't sound like you're "reacting in an emotional state". So again, if you wanna block her, block her. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Is blocking a female justifiable?If you want to block her, then block her. I block anyone who isn't adding something to my life, especially if they're actively detracting from it. Don't overthink it; just block her and move on. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Guys who were late bloomers, how did you change it around?"I can't direct my own life" Why not? "I have nothing to offer" Why can't you change this? "I'm autistic" What a lame excuse. " So how do I get good women?" By improving the things you just wrote. Sounds like you have zero interest in improving yourself though. In another comment you wrote "I have no chance of success in life". So you've literally already given up. So no, you can't get good women - you already gave up. That's like me saying, "How do I win the olympics" when I haven't even entere… | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 05:56 AM |
| 1 | How do I find FwB as a guy?" Tinder as well as online in general, is only for 6 feet tall and above." Got proof of this, or are you just spouting something you think is true? Because you couldn't be more wrong, and it's painful to read. I have 3 coaching clients I'm working with right now who are under 6ft. One is 5ft7, and he was a virgin in his 30's when he first started seeing me. He's gotten laid with 5 girls so far (in about 7 months). He looked average (maybe slightly below average) when he first started seeing me, … | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Is tinder actually a good way to talk to women, cuz half the time it’s dry women or they’re those “premium” Snapchat ones :/To talk to women, or to get laid? If you mean get laid/finding a relationship, yeah Tinder is fucking awesome - once you improve your appearance and get some decent pics. Follow this guide. As /u/Topgun157 said though, there are a craptonne of girls using it for validation/instagram followers. 95% of getting laid on Tinder is weeding out the timewasters, but you get better at that with practice. -Andy | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Finding a real sexting community?Tinder. Get some decent pics, match with girls, ask for their Snapchat. Yes, I've done this | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Getting out of the friend zone (in my experience)You want something he can't give you. The longer you stay, the more you're just hurting yourself. | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Getting out of the friend zone (in my experience)We can't guarantee something will work - we don't know you, of your guy friend, or the situation between you. Try it and see. At least then you'll have an answer - which is much better than you wanting something you can't have, constantly trying to figure out his signals and guess if he likes you or not. Just be real with him and tell him you like him. Whatever happens after that, you'll at least know you had the courage to act. Rejection is always better than regret - and you will regret it if … | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Hey guys. How do you guys with being uncool, having strong social anxiety, and having relatively few friends? Any books would help tooI know corona makes it harder right now, but you need to push yourself to make friends (even if it's scary as fuck). Use meetup.com, join a sports group, find people with similar interests to you, post on here asking if there's anybody in your city who wants to meet up and be friends. I used to suffer severely from crippling social phobia and agoraphobia (fear of even leaving the house). The only way I overcame it was exposure therapy - forcing myself to go outside and face it, even though that … | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Seduction: Dealing with the guilt of feeling manipulativeAhhh - I get you. How long are you with them before they catch feelings? I'm casual with all girls but most of them get a little bit of feelings - but it isn't until about 6 months into it. A little bit of feelings is inevitable. I guess the question is, are they just catching feelings, or is it full-on, absolute, "I'm madly in love with you, ZerohCrz!" Because 95% of the girls I date definitely don't fall head-over-heels in love with me. Yes, they care about me, and some of them grow pretty fon… | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 12:05 AM |
| 3 | I’m handsome but still a virginDamn straight. I mean you could - if you were a girl. But us as guys, nah - if we want stuff, we've gotta go after it. "If it is to be, it's up to me." Just take a couple of baby steps right now - eg go on meetup.com and just have a look through a few different groups. See if there's any you like. And order the No More Mr Nice Guy book. That's all you have to do - just a couple of baby steps. Then tomorrow take another baby step. Just keep taking little tiny steps each day, and they'll add up ov… | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:58 PM |
| 6 | I’m handsome but still a virginYeah - fair enough about right now with corona. Insecurities: Everyone has 'em, dude. You can be an absolute insecure trainwreck of a human being and still lose your virginity. Lack of confidence: Why would you be confident when you have literally zero experience with women? Confidence only comes with practice. You're going to have to accept the fact you'll be unconfident, terrified, nervous, unsure, full of doubt - those feelings are inevitable. Be ok with being a mess, and just try getting lai… | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:47 PM |
| 1 | How old were you guys when you first got into game/started using game?Nice, man. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:40 PM |
| 1 | How old were you guys when you first got into game/started using game?I'm friends with a few guys who only started when they were in their early 30's. Trust me, you aren't late to the game. I'm now 33 and getting laid with 18-25yos is easier at this age (mostly because the older you get, the more experienced/confident you become). Start now at 23, and you'll be in a winning position by the time you're in your mid-late 20's. You got this. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Am I too skinny for 6ft tall male? Get stared down so often especially my legs)Cheers for the heads up, blocked him so I won't see any of his comments. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:37 PM |
| 5 | Seduction: Dealing with the guilt of feeling manipulativeDon't manipulate. I've built my sex life on the principle of honesty, always being upfront, never bullshitting girls - just telling them the truth, telling them exactly what I'm after. And if they aren't after the same thing then no hard feelings - I'll go find a girl who is. Your body is trying to tell you something, man. Your moral compass is screaming out to you, "This doesn't feel good!" and you're ignoring it. Tell girls upfront exactly what you're looking for. If that's something casual, t… | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Guys who were late bloomers, how did you change it around?Yeah I have read Models and lot of the top voted posts in this sub. The most crucial thing I've learnt is the importance of inner game. Being confident and believing in myself has really made me happy in life, so I guess I have been successful in seduction in some way. Yes but have you actually applied any of that information - have you gone out and talked to girls, or installed Tinder and messaged girls, or talked to girls in your social circle/through hobbies/etc? All the knowledge in the worl… | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Guys who were late bloomers, how did you change it around?Wear height-increasing boots, or height-increasing insoles (you literally just put them into your regular shoes). They add a couple inches immediately. That said, 5'7 isn't midget size - there's millions of girls out there shorter than you. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Guys who were late bloomers, how did you change it around?Start here. Literally every single step you need to take to improve yourself, message girls, get dates, kiss them, bang them, date them, whatever you want. I've known a few guys who were late-bloomers (virgins in their 30's), so don't stress - 22 isn't that old, man. There's always hope; question is, what's stopping you losing your virginity right now? Is it just that you don't know how to lose it, or have you settled into complacency - are you ok with being a virgin and it's become not that big… | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Best fragrances to attract men/women?Fucking love Thierry Mugler - his "A*Men Pure Coffee" is the cologne I've been rocking for a few years now. To answer your question: Just pick what you like. Ever used Frangrantica? Go here, they have a massive list of a million different "flavour note" (eg citrus, different types of flowers, woods, etc). You pick a few flavours you like and it gives you a list of perfumes. I've had fun wearing a few "weird" ones - eg coffee, freshly cut grass, pepper, popcorn. The best perfume is the one you li… | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Am I too skinny for 6ft tall male? Get stared down so often especially my legs)Honestly you're "skinny-fat" - the worst thing to be. You don't get the benefits of being lean (abs, nice jawline, defined muscles, etc), but you don't get the benefits of being buff. I'd lose some of the fat if I were you. Start with this and this. Good news is you're not that big - lose maybe 10lbs and you'll be golden. Lift weights at the same time too and you'll be a beast. Be patient with it; losing fat/gaining muscle takes time. Rome wasn't built in a day. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:15 PM |
| 5 | I’m handsome but still a virginLemme ask you a question (and bare in mind I'm saying this with love): Do you actually want to lose your virginity? A better question: What's holding you back? | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:11 PM |
| 2 | What's helped you?"You can't win 'em all." | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:09 PM |
| 9 | How do I talk dirty?I've written bits and pieces about talking dirty - eg here. I'm assuming you mean in the bedroom during sex - and not talking dirty via text or something. If you're nervous and just starting out, just give compliments. Yes, compliments - literally just tell your girl what you like about her body/how much she's turning you on/how much you want her: "You have the hottest tits" "Fuck I love your pussy" "You're turning me on like crazy" "Holy shit I want you" "I love the way you moan, it's so hot", … | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do it!thinfingers | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 09:46 PM |
| 2 | How do I find FwB as a guy?I gotta disagree with your blanket advice, man - just because FWB hasn't worked for you doesn't mean it doesn't work for others. That's like me burning my hand on the oven and saying "You don't want to use the oven. Trust me, it's only harm for you." I've had plenty of FWB over the last few years and they've been some of the most rewarding "relationships" I've had with anyone. They've added a lot to my life and me to theirs - one even became my girlfriend (been together 2 years). If I avoided al… | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 09:43 PM |
| 0 | How do I find FwB as a guy?I like you already. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 09:37 PM |
| 4 | How do I find FwB as a guy?Yeah - hence why I wrote the guide structured around improving yourself (and getting more matches), so you have more girls to talk to. What else is he going to do - sit around with 0 fuckbuddies and not even try? Don't let possible rejection or low approval rates be a reason not to try. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Advice - Girls stop answering after moving from Tinder to SnapchatSome girls just aren't going to be into you - that's an inevitable part of trying to get laid. Don't overanalyse what went wrong here (because you have no way of knowing and you'd only be speculating) - the answer is always move on and talk to more girls. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 07:21 AM |
| 3 | She texted first, never thought I’d ask thisAssuming she's real, she just gave you a compliment, dude. How do you normally respond to compliments? "Cheers", "Thanks, you too", etc. You don't have to say anything special - "You're cute too" is usually enough. Then move on to whatever you want to talk about, chat for a bit, then ask for her number so you can grab a drink. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 07:17 AM |
| 1 | I am extremely good at picking up women, here's how I do itAre these girls you're already on a date with, or random girls at the office/social circle/etc? If you mean on a date - just keep it simple. "Let's get out of here - come back to my place and we'll have another drink." If she says no, cool - end the date shortly after, tell her you're looking forward to the second date. On the second date, do the same shit - invite her back to yours again after 30 min. If no again, repeat on the 3rd date. You don't need to escalate in public (I almost never do) … | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 06:53 AM |
| 1 | How do you keep conversation going via messages?Are you trying to fuck her, or just trying to have a conversation over text? Talking with girls isn't "making progress". As u/HoobaDooba420 said in another comment, keep text strictly to setting up dates. You literally said yourself you're good at conversation in real life. Awesome - make it your mission to get girls out on a date so you can talk to them in person. | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 06:52 AM |
| 7 | How do I find FwB as a guy?Tinder/Hinge/Bumble/etc are the easiest for something casual. Just follow this (If that's too long, here's a condensed version). Find a FWB on Tinder by being upfront about what you want (literally tell girls "I'm looking for something fairly casual, so let's grab a drink and see where things lead"). If you're not confident enough to do that, then just go on normal dates with girls (without telling them you want something casual first), get to know them and when you're comfortable, bring up the … | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Why it's not "morally" wrong or hypocritical to sleep with many women yet expect the mother of your kids to not have slept with many menAll of this can be boiled down to "Do what you want to do." If you want to sleep with lots of women and then find a woman who hasn't had a lot of sex to settle down with, go for it - fuck anyone who thinks that's "hypocritical". | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | "So what kind of girls do you like?" Whats the best way to respond to this?Respond with the truth - whatever type of girl you like. She's asking you that so she can (hopefully) give you what you want. So just tell her what you want. Don't overthink it. | /r/seduction | 05/05/20 12:01 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter