holding frame vs not speaking up?

TheRedPillRipper · 2020-07-21T21:52:28+00:00

when she says shit like this

A&A or Amused Mastery is the response. e.g. ”Maybe he’ll take you back.” or ”Sounds like an upgrade to me.”

this does piss me off

Here’s another thought that will trigger you; at your age; odds are yours won’t be the last penis inside her.

”To be angry is to let others' mistakes punish yourself” - Buddha

The past is the past. Acknowledge it; then let it go; cause the future is where you’re headed.

Godspeed and good luck!

KillYourInnerLoser · 2020-07-21T23:50:28+00:00

The answer will almost always be - do whatever YOU want to do.

If you want to speak up, tell her.

If you don't, then don't.

But I'd caution against directly telling her what to do. There's a chance she'll just keep doing it, but hide it from you. Or stop doing it, but resent you for ordering her around. Life is much easier if you just tell people what your dealbreakers are, and tell them they're perfectly welcome to keep doing the behaviour, but you'll just leave.

And always be willing to walk away.

-Andy

deeznutsbeswingin · 2020-07-21T20:58:15+00:00

Just tell her that’s fine, you were too. “Well I don’t talk to you about other girls much but I had some booty call girls in my life back then too”. That will shut her up, apply dread, and boost your own ego. Win win win

Project_Zero_Betas · 2020-07-21T21:48:28+00:00

Next time she pulls that, offer to drive her to the guys house so they can resume where they left off. Thatll put a stop to it ✋

daddysash · 2020-07-21T21:24:02+00:00

It's just shit test. But more pressing is the reaso it makes you lose attraction to her? Is it knowingbshe was with other men before or that she is telling you about it?

brosky7331 · 2020-07-22T03:21:09+00:00

I would tell her to stop bringing it up, simple

OppaiGAME · 2020-07-22T10:08:34+00:00

Say the following : ''That's not very ladylike.'' or ''It's not very ladylike to kiss and tell''. This will make her reevaluate the words she speaks, and her self perception. She's still young, and capable of change. If she's not too far-gone, she'll realize what her words make her sound like.

Title	holding frame vs not speaking up?
Author	mxstafaaa
Upvotes	13
Comments	21
Date	July 21, 2020 8:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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