I went on a date with a guy yesterday and I feel like I may have let him go too far. Is there such a thing?

Davidle3 · 2020-06-19T23:35:27+00:00

There is no too far. I’ve see women ready instantly to get naked and have sex. I feel it’s about chemistry it’s about the moment. If I had sex with a woman instantly I wouldn’t be judging which is what I feel that your worried about. Some guys will judge you but those guys are of the immature nature and that is their hang up and not yours. If your dealing with an immature guy you can get some ignorant responses but everything is feed back so if you have a negative response to something then just stop dealing with that person. I am totally fine with a woman that is ready instantly if the chemistry is there. I don’t think you should view sex as some sort of level to be achieved and I don’t think of it that way. I say release the self judgement and if you feel that is the action you want to take then just accept it and be fine with it. You want to use judgement and discernment but like I said if you feel the situation is right then be happy with that.

anonymus08-03 · 2020-06-20T01:06:01+00:00

No. The first date with my wife ended in the bedroom. As a guy I appreciated she was honest and didn’t play any games.

So don’t overthink it. Most guys like it if you show your honest feelings.

willgo-waggins · 2020-06-20T01:11:52+00:00

This question has always made me laugh at our double standard society. And even harder when women say that guys dint think or act differently.

There is no reason why you should or shouldn’t go as far as you want with someone as long as it is what you want to do.

People - women especially - worry too much about others opinions s of them and their behaviors that are not either 1) hustling anyone else or 2) any of their fucking business.

Most people that judge others based in their sexual behavior are either very repressed (a few) or jealous (most).

2020-06-19T22:14:49+00:00

That depends on you how far you wanna take it. Even if you guys hooked up or want to. If you didn’t but want to go ahead but if you don’t wanna hook up without it being a relationship or leaning towards it you have to be upfront despite the outcome BE HONEST

Therocksays2020 · 2020-06-19T22:28:01+00:00

You need to define what you see as too far. How far did things go.

quinnmcd · 2020-06-20T16:08:32+00:00

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A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

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sloanpal144 · 2020-06-20T07:14:11+00:00

Yes, there is. Just thing of it like this. Are you more appreciative of money you worked you ass off for or money that was just given to you? Most people dont appreciate anything they dont have to work for.

Title	I went on a date with a guy yesterday and I feel like I may have let him go too far. Is there such a thing?
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Date	June 19, 2020 9:52 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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