So i was with a hot girl we went to my apartment then went to my room then startedtalking in my bed and she stared at me and lean a little like waiting for a move and i did fucking nothing, my brain couldnt believe a hot girl wanted something from me, and then the situation turned a little awkward and after a little while she left

And then the next Day another girl were in my room just chilling and before she left she blocked my way of the other and same shit stared directly at me without saying nothing and i again did fucking nothing

How did you get away from fear at the moment of escalation? Fear from rejection? I mean without alcohol I always doubt a lot