A few years back a journalist from BuzzFeed reached out to me to steal some attraction tips from me to use online.

Of course I told him how you should have a photo looking away from the camera because it's psychologically powerful and also you should have a photo with you and a dog because people are addicted to pictures with animals.

The one thing I didnt tell him which you can use now is this...

Be POLARIZING.

You gotta be polarizing in your profile and your first few messages to get attention from women.

Your bullshit resume of a profile is not gonna fly. She doesn't care. She doesn't think like a logical man who prides himself on his own achievements.

You gotta hit her right in the ovaries...I mean emotions.

Shit.

You gotta hit her in the emotions.

For example, every girl on tinder wants you to add her on Instagram.

So my profile says: "No I'm not going to add you on Instagram, I'd rather fuck the narcissism out of you instead of feeding it."

(Don't all steal this it at once.)

The key 🔑 to remember is, you're dealing with busy girls with short attention spands.

You need to get good at grabbing attention in 3 seconds and keep it.

A great way to develop this skill is to watch stand up comedy daily.

Andrew Shultz in my current inspiration right now. He tells it like it is but also makes sure to hit you in the gut.

Watch here: https://youtu.be/nS_6c4PyJvg

Make a note on your phone to write down banter lines you hear that hit you in the gut to craft your profile and messages.

Remember, you're not trying to be liked by every girl, that's needy beta shit.

Your looking for the girls who CRAVE you. And to get those women, you must be polarizing.

Live dangerously ✌-RR

consciousalpha