Whats my problem? I do all the things mentioned here. I look good, nice body, well groomed, dress nice, have fun hobbies such as Latin dance (im pretty good), hiking, played lots of sports, martial arts background, speak 3 languages, love traveling. A lot of people think I was a highschool jock and think im a chick magnet but reality is far from the truth. Im desperate despite all these activities I do.