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[–]sleimon 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you want something, you have to go get it.
[–]tradeking15 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I can tell you from personal experience that if you go out 0 nights a week you will never get a girl. Your chances increase slightly if you have girls at work that you can talk to or put in solid effort into online apps. Ultimately you need to leave the house to have a real shot.
[–]habbyshouse[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
So you’re saying if I go out consistently, embarrass myself, get rejected/ignored by multiple women, that i can have success?
[–]180mind 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you go out consistently and learn from your mistakes then your odds of succeeding are exponentially higher than not going out.
Everyone pays for success in their respective field. With seduction, you pay for it in rejections, awkwardness, and embarrassment which become increasingly inconsequential with time.
Go out
[–]tradeking15 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes im saying go out and if you embarress yourself learn to shrug it off and just go out with the intention of having a fun time and enjoying some laughs with people. If you do this enough i guarantee there will be a girl who will be interested in you at some point.
[–]habbyshouse[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Got it. Alright then, I’m probably going to this electronic event tonight alone. do you have any tips for getting into a social flow? Like just approaching everyone?
It happens too many times where I go there and maybe I speak to two people before leaving.
[–]tradeking15 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well i find for my self to get into the social flow that just making sure the basics are covered with a good outfit and hygiene is on point and if you drink, then loosening up with a few always goes a long way for me.
As far as approaching i wouldnt say hit up everyone but use your discretion. I personally find it easiest when your already near someone and you can either make a comment on your surroundings or just straight up introduce yourself and ask about their interest in the show/performers and then just build on those interactions. Maybe they introduce you to their friends and then boom, the ball is rolling and you have some people to talk to and hang out with for awhile. If they arent interested thats ok, dont force it and be prepared to move on and try again with someone else.
Based on where you are right now your main goal should be to break the interaction barrier and get comfortable initiating and maintaining conversations with people. No expectations, just shoot the shit and have some fun.
[–]hexhog2 points 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yes. And don't go out in the night. Go out in the day. Approach a girl you fancy and tell her she is cute and introduce yourself. You may think this is embarassing but this is the ONLY way you can build confidence. Your first 100 approaches will be rejections unless you look like a fitness model. After that approaching will become second nature to you. The approach itself is the win. Getting her number comes much later. Converting that to a date -> Getting her back home these all come after multiple rejections and building your confidence.
Remember, it is the failures that make you strong. So go out and embrace failure. Success will eventually follow
[–]reomix 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your unfortunately going to have to realize you will be ignored rejected and humiliated many times before progress will be made.
Don’t ever expect your body to be helping you out
Start slow don’t even focus on girls focus on friends and build your way up
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 6 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
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[–]hexhog1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
"Scared to get ignored" Get the f out with that. You think you are so damn special. No you are not. Get over it.
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