I feel like I'd rather know the girl and see her when she's sober, and make sure that she's of sound mind and acts in a healthy way and then decide to move things forward sexually. A half-drunk club thot who's acting impulsively and is constantly going out and clubbing and seeking validation while being down to smash on sight, in a sexual sense is dope because yay for sexuality and all that, but it doesn't look so good when it comes to protecting my little guy from getting KO'd by STDs and STIs.

Like how are you guys having the strength to hook-up so consistently so fearlessly? Do you guys just have anti-biotic cycles lying around at all times? Are some of y'all wearing 3 condoms stacked over each other? How often are you getting tested? I've only done a ONS once and I was so paranoid for weeks.