Girlfriend afraid of having sex again

goron24 · 2020-08-17T16:48:32+00:00

Fucking talk to her. Ask her what would make her comfortable. Be honest that you weren't experience and didn't mean to hurt her. Communicate, it's really not difficult

somedude9797 · 2020-08-17T19:54:29+00:00

Fuck all the seduction shit. It is your first girlfriend and it was your first experience. Just talk honestly about your thoughts and feelings. Ask her things.

About sex: tell her that you are inexperienced. Tell her you would love to make love together without hurting her.

Communicate - please dont use any creepy seduction techniques in a relationship. You dont need to prove anything

2020-08-17T16:45:35+00:00

Be more seductive, to build up the tention, start kissing take it slowly lots of foreplay tease her and the start undressing urself etc and she will be in the mood by then if u did it right

quinnmcd · 2020-08-18T04:05:29+00:00

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2020-08-17T17:05:55+00:00

This was obviously your first time.

She made it clear that you’re bad at sex and it hurt her. What do you plan to do differently your 2nd time so that you don’t make the same mistakes again? You should be honest with your girlfriend and tell her that you have no idea what you’re doing when it comes to sex because the last thing you want is for other girls to learn that you’re a selfish or clumsy lover because that factual information will spread quickly.

Title	Girlfriend afraid of having sex again
Author	brainndbraun222
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	August 17, 2020 4:40 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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