Approaching a cute barista at a local coffee shop

appmanga · 2020-08-24T15:57:43+00:00

Usually I would lean against approaching a woman at her job like this, but you guys seems to have a bit of rapport and familiarity. You can even frame an invite in a humorous way: "I bet you'd hate it if I wanted to take you out for coffee". If she laughs, and says something like "no", the door is wide open. She probably doesn't have time to chat, so give her a note with your number.

Good luck.

2020-08-24T15:19:16+00:00

Chances are she's just being nice to you because it's her job

pua_max · 2020-08-24T15:27:39+00:00

I’ve succeeded with cashiers and waitresses. They get hit on by a lot of people who beat around the bush. To differentiate yourself from the pack, confident bluntness works well. I’m sure there’s even more optimal ways but that’s what I got.

quinnmcd · 2020-08-24T16:11:08+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:

How do I approach?
How do I get a number?
How do I talk to girls at college?
How/When do I kiss a girl?
Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

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Title	Approaching a cute barista at a local coffee shop
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Date	August 24, 2020 2:57 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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