Just wanted to share my success. I set up a date this week a week ago, but (to avoid oneitis) I also set up two more just in case things didn't work out. I contacted the first one a couple days before and we planned to get coffee but she bumped it up to dinner and I told her we'd have to split the bill (because roommate owes me a few weeks rent and I'm broke) and she immediately lost interest. After this I thought I'd be 0/3 and didn't even try to make it work with girl #2 but she contacted me and we hung out last night. The other girl has been texting me all day saying how excited she is to meet me and I still think she's my best chance. Not sure if I'm using the curriculum of seddit and working the system or just getting lucky but whatever.