I want to preface by saying that I'm using the book "The trial" by Avery Hayden as a guide. I'm one week 3 day 2 of the process. Check out the book. I think you can find the pdf online somewhere.
So this happened last night. I decided to go out to the bar just to experience what the night was going to be like. I already approached the minimum amount of girls I had to for the day but the itch was there. I really REALLY wanted to socialize. Stopped by this pit stop bar to pre game. It was chill. Didn't talk to anyone in there though. From there I went to the backyard (this other bar). And that's where the real fun begins.
Ended up sitting next to these really attractive girls to my right. One of them left to go to the bathroom (girl a) and I ended up talking to the other one(girl b)
At first the vibe was that she wasn't interested but as we spoke it seemed like she really opened up to me, and that's where I learned my first lesson:
1) Don't let someone else's vibe deter you from your own vibe and frame
Anyways we kept talking about different things and she ended up saying that she had a boyfriend but thinks I can hook up with her friend (girl a). She ended up giving me advice on how to make it happen with her.
I was suspicious of it, and she admitted herself she gives bad advice. I decided to just wing it and do my own thing when girl a comes back.
The other friend comes back and I immediately initiate conversation. There was IMMEDIATE attraction there. Like smiling nervousness from her, but openness to be vulnerable.
She kept complimenting me. Saying I was hot. we had a very illogical conversation tbh but that brings me to my 2nd lesson:
2) true attraction does not come from catering to a girls logic. It comes from a girls emotions.
It felt like we were speaking via our attraction and emotions towards each other. It's a whole different type of conversation than when you're talking to an acquaintance. It's kind of similar to talking to a really really good friend, if you took away the sexual aspect of it. Anyways I can tell that if I went to kiss her it was gonna happen. So I looked her in the left eye, right eye, lips, I turned my cap around and then I went for the kiss. She was super down. I ended up stopping because I knew we were about to cause a commotion right there and then if I didn't otherwise 😈😈. 3rd point:
3) When the attraction is obviously there Make the move. Do not miss a beat
I Also want to note that the kiss was an escalation build up that then led up to the kiss. Before it even happened, I was putting my hands on her shoulder at one moment. I accidentally (like really accidentally) touched her breast but acknowledged it to her. I put my hands on her legs. Kept solid eye contact. When I just let my sexuality flow everything seems to fall into place.
Anyways, after the kiss nothing was off limits. At one point I put my hands on between her legs and was slowly caressing her pussy outside her pants.
She did NOT WANT TO STOP MAKING OUT. like every 30 seconds, she would flip my hat around just so we can make out.
Some other dude ended up interrupting us because she dropped her juul. He was walking by and picked it up for her. She didn't really quite notice herself dropping it, so I'm assuming she thought the poor guy was hitting on her. She kind of had an attitude and was being a little nasty towards him. I checked her on it and explained what was going on to her. Point 4:
4) I repeat. Do not drop you masculine frame. If she does something that you know is out of line, or that you don't like, check her on it. You have to be willing to lose a girl.
She relaxed and went back to being playful. Funny enough the 3 of us ended up having a dope conversation for a little bit before he left.
Anyways girl b comes back and apparently, both of them misplaced their purse. I looked at the bar and saw a purse on the back bartender counter. I pointed it out to the friend and she was super happy about it.
The other girl, my girl, girl a, also lost her bag. And it affected her whole mood. She was scared because all her info was there. I again had to calm her down and tell her that she was going to find it. I had her friends and some bartender look around for it based on where she told me she was before she sat down.
Long story short she ended up finding it. Her friend found it, which low key gave me more respect for the friend. She seemed very stand offish when we first met, but literally ran around the the whole bar just to friend her friends purse. That made me slightly more attractive to her than the girl I'm dealing with. (I also want to make a not that I didn't have to do any of this. I didn't have to help her. I decided to help her because I felt like it at the moment, not because I thought I was gonna get some ass if I found it. And even me helping was very low energy. I didn't even get up up. I just had other people look for it for me)
I tried bringing girl A back to my place but she said she couldn't because she was on her period or whatever. She felt really bummed about it, but I was super chill. Was in a abundance mentality . Ended up making out with her one last time before I head out.
Went to this other bar where I ended up chilling with these other 2 girls for a while. No make out. Just a very dope conversation.
I want to note a couple things.
1) I was pretty social to everyone that night. I only explained the approaches of girls I found really attractive but in between I literally talked to anyone who was next to me.
2)I went out by myself. Based off of my personal experience, a lot more crazy stuff like this happens when you're out a lone. My thoughts is that it's because you don't have anyone to fall back on to be social with. You pretty much have to create that energy yourself. It's fine having a buddy with you, but you cannot use him as a crutch if you know you're going out to meet women.
3) learn the mindset of "do I like her" rather than "does she like me?". Every conversation I had with women, I checked to see if we were compatible. I really didn't care if she liked me or not. Or rather I assumed she was attracted to me. My main goal was to see if her vibe and intentions aligned with my own agenda. I approached other girls that night but decided not to write it down because I found out quick that we weren't a match.
And that was my night. I've been going out pretty much everyday for 3 weeks now. Mostly day game. This is like my 3rd or 4th night game experience during this challenge. My goal is to pretty much have a rotation of about 3-4 really attractive girls that I hook up with. I know I'm almost there. I can almost taste it. Going out tonight, so might post again tomorrow morning. Hoped you guys enjoyed this and it gave someone some motivation.
P.s I love in a college campus. My school tested everyone on campus for corona. The girls I talked to except one were all from my school and tested negative
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