For context, I'm 21M with Asperger's Syndrome so you can imagine how hard it already is for me to even socialize to people, let alone with girls.

I had several chances in the past to get with girls who showed interest in me but sadly my autism scared them away. It's a catch-22 for me because my looks draw them in but they ditch as soon as they see how socially awkward I am. I sometimes feel like I don't even have a personality of my own or I have the personality of a robot. It doesn't help that just about every trait that Aspies have contradicts what women look for in a man. I know women tend to prefer dominant & assertive men and I'm just really clueless on how to even be remotely close to that

But yeah any tips would be appreciated.