How do I make women not think of me as their One?

2020-09-14T09:56:19+00:00

brabus4 · 2020-09-14T09:57:38+00:00

Well, the age is important. If they are 30+ they are just pumped and dumped a lot and wanna settle. If they are young, well idk maybe you're just that cool. But you have no problems getting new girls after dumping the old ones and you probably reject them politely, so it is all good.

BonvivantNamedDom · 2020-09-14T09:58:12+00:00

Communication and ignoring their tries. But you will piss some lasses of like that.

You just do your thing, openly, without shame. Most women wont be able to stand this and take off after a while, but generally you shouldnt act like theyre the only ones. Its up to them to deal with it.

MoistInitial · 2020-09-14T10:38:19+00:00

where I go out with a girl that has had many one night stands but she decides she will "save it for me"

You need to stop feeling bad about just having sex with these types of women. They spent their 20's and some even their 30's fucking around left and right and now expect to find a great man. You don't owe them anything, so stop feeling bad. Obviously if you like them to that level then date them, but they had no problem fucking around when they were young and attractive, so why are you feeling bad now? If someone spent their whole paycheck on video games and then didn't have food to eat would you feel bad for them?

2020-09-14T11:04:07+00:00

As others have said, I’d definitely account this to age more than “intellect” as you put it. Let’s face it, women at that age are nearing the time limit.

If a psychotherapist can’t help, Reddit sure as hell won’t. That said, maybe the issue is that you just didn’t get the reply you wanted to hear?

I don’t know what to say, really. Date younger or be more upfront with your intentions. If you’ve been clear from the start then it’s not your responsibility anymore.

joelskees · 2020-09-14T12:19:59+00:00

Stating your intentions in the beginning in no uncertain terms, should weed out most of them. If you were looking for just promiscuous sex, and they try to stick around to convince you otherwise that's on them.

quinnmcd · 2020-09-14T14:46:51+00:00

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Title	How do I make women not think of me as their One?
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Date	September 14, 2020 9:52 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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