If you want to get girls to EMOTIONALLY INVEST in you, you need to play the long-term game.

revente · 2020-09-26T00:07:35+00:00

Sounds wholesome but for many guys this is just the recipe that landed them in a friendzone time and time again.

Obviously its great if you meet a gf material girl in a social scenario, but ultimately i think gf material girls are not that common. You’ll probably meet decent number of girls you want to have sex with, but very few of them are compatible enough, for something more. Also shitting where you eat is just a bad idea.

Also noone says to approach 20 girls a day because you want to have a go with every one of them. Nope, it’s just to get practice. Once you are good enough, approach even only one girl a week, but make it sure it’s a girl you really like. As you’ve said it Quality > Quantity.

2020-09-26T12:58:52+00:00

I agree with all your post. It’s like guys can’t observe reality, most men dating did NOT get their women through cold approaching, yet guys insist this is they way to do it lol, like no one really goes around approaching 100 women to get 1 to 10 out of them. I think you should make yourself very attractive through looks maxing and personality maxing then join social circles and from experience flirting right off the bat is less likely too work. You’ll often hear women say I didn’t really like him at first but he grew on me, that guy grew on her would have blown the situation if he came out flirting from jump. It’s 2020 yet the dating community is still obsessed with cold approaching

tibles20 · 2020-09-26T07:50:57+00:00

I want to but girls don't recognize that

Apprehensive-Ad5227 · 2020-09-26T13:48:43+00:00

Yawn.. Boring..U have to make a bigger impression than that.. geez..

vogonpoet20 · 2020-09-26T16:19:36+00:00

What I've found is if you do cold approach (day or night game) you become much better at talking to women in social scenarios. The act of talking to hundreds of women generates lots of information which your sub-conscious uses to improve all your subsequent interactions.

The other benefit of cold approach to strangers is if you mess up, there probably won't be any consequences because you're a lot less likely to ever see them again (certainly in a big city). Screwing up in social circle dating can be awkward and the negative effects on your psychology may persist for longer.

Title	If you want to get girls to EMOTIONALLY INVEST in you, you need to play the long-term game.
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Date	September 25, 2020 11:28 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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