Recently discovered the red pill.

imgonnabethegreatest · 2015-06-21T08:12:01+00:00

Well, one, don't shit where you eat. Do not have relations with coworkers, ever.

Taking the pussy off the pedestal is a process done by learning that women aren't special. Read the sidebar of the main sub to help aid you in this but realize it's going to take some time to internalize.

Not falling in love is a different task entirely. Even after taking women off the pedestal and swallowing trp, I caught oneitis twice. The second one almost destroyed me but I learned a massive amount from it. The girl will always have a place in my heart because I let her almost ruin me and I wouldn't have rebuilt myself into who I am now without that happening but I won't let it happen again.

tl;dr: read the sidebar, realize women aren't special. the only way to stop falling in love is to get out there and experience it.

machimus · 2015-06-21T09:46:52+00:00

I am sorta in monk mode but recently a new co worker came into my life. She's sweet and I thought she was my unicorn.

Wow, you need to slow the fuck down and realize this is exactly why you put yourself in Monk Mode time out. She's sweet, so that means she's a unicorn? Please admit to yourself how deluded that sounds, and that you actually see yourself "falling in love" again for the wrong reasons. Read the sidebar more. Monk mode means you stop chasing crushes and work on yourself while you figure it out.

How do you guys fully stop putting girls on a pedestal and stop falling in love? So that I can achieve the desired red pill state.

It's all covered in the sidebar. Read the fucking sidebar.

penguin_says_slide · 2015-06-21T10:27:32+00:00

The ol' scarcity v.s. abudance mentality.

To reach an abundance mentality you need two things :

Watch this this.
Go out and cold approach. Monk mode is cool and all but when it comes to game the 6-pack is overrated.

RPmatrix · 2015-06-21T14:48:49+00:00

How do you guys fully stop putting girls on a pedestal and stop falling in love?

By reading the sidebar material (at /r/TRP proper) and DOING much of the suggested things to improve ourselves and internalizing and acting upon what we've learned -- there are no shortcuts!

Get to it bro

Title	Recently discovered the red pill.
Author	Worldmap77
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	June 21, 2015 7:47 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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