Sometimes I think the male sex drive is a gift and a curse. You know how rewarding it feels but it prevents you from being a regular person. I've failed a lot with women and I realize I come off too sexual and don't actually try to get to know them. When you're horny you don't think rationally. Your goal is to get laid and nothing else.

I see why so many guys are needy, clingy, and get too pushy. It's because you're too busy thinking about sex instead of talking to women like regular people. I'm not saying it will guarantee success but if I could just get sex off of my mind I think I would do better with women. The male libido really is such a detriment to succeeding with women.