How come one day I get lots of looks right an left, makes me feel good, even though I have plain clothes on. Then second day I put nice outfit on and I get no looks whatsoever?

2020-10-06T14:18:57+00:00

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Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

7GoodVibes · 2020-10-06T06:24:09+00:00

I don’t know what you mean by saying plain clothes vs nice outfit, but it could be the context of the situation. In an exaggerated example, wearing a tuxedo to a seedy biker bar won’t fit in quite as well as a rugged leather jacket, jeans and boots.

It could also be a difference in what you consider nice, and what others consider to be a better look for you.

2020-10-06T13:57:43+00:00

It's more about the aura you're projecting than you're clothes. If you're wearing average clothes but feeling very good, confident and projecting good energy, you'll get more good looks than if you're wearing great clothes but feel like shit.

I almost always notice if I'm in a really good mood and feeling good about myself people will smile at me and look at me. If you feel like shit people can pick-up on it, they don't smile and they avoid you.

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