How do you guys go about not paying for dates, and meet ups? I invited a girl off Tinder to lunch last week, and ended up paying. Hated it. Today, I had a lunch date again with a new girl, and told her before hand I don't pay for girls that I'm not dating or fucking. She was totally cool about it.

I have a coffee meet up with another girl in about 30 minutes so I'm wondering if I should just buy the coffee, or not. What would my move be here?

Old me paid for everything, cause I was a damn fool. I never want to pay them again.