Have any of you guys been average looking but then improved your looks and got better looking women?

2020-10-22T02:56:05+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

OrzhovPalatine · 2020-10-22T02:09:20+00:00

The thing is even if you did improve your looks you still have the mentality of an insecure defeatist dude.

For example when I did lose weight and started to dress better I did get a little more attention from women but I still had that same mentality prior to losing the weight and dressing better so while I looked the part I hadn't worked on my verbal and charm skills.

I always stress to dudes work on your verbal game in the short term, surface traits in the long. Its gonna take you a few months to be healthy and dress better, you can start right away bantering with women and throwing stuff against the wall to see what sticks.

Wordwind · 2020-10-22T01:36:15+00:00

Confidence, humor and empathy are all you need, Bud, but a spit 'n polish never hurts one's chances.

akareeno · 2020-10-22T02:30:29+00:00

I’ve been average looking and still attracted average to decently attractive women because of my mysterious vibe. Couldn’t escalate because of my poor social skills.

bobicus1200 · 2020-10-22T02:36:12+00:00

I was average till i hit the gym and got really lean, pretty much summer bod, and this girl did give me attention, only problem is im extremely shy, no confidence or humor, pretty much the all body no personality without the ego. If you ask me if you've got the wits then you'll make do.

2020-10-22T02:57:15+00:00

I have had some girls into me but never knew how to escalate it nor did I have the confidence.

Title	Have any of you guys been average looking but then improved your looks and got better looking women?
Author	turbulentside1
Upvotes	6
Comments	6
Date	October 22, 2020 1:32 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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