It's all about you and your state of mindset, negative or positive that should matter to you.

Don't go to the gym to get girls to notice you. Do it because you want to. Pretend nobody ever saw your gains. Would you still gym?

Some days you can just be overcome with this pain with why your doing so poorly with women. This is bad. I actually got the most interest when I just stopped reciprocating and flirting . Even when women were smiling and flirting I kinda dampened the situation and you could tell they were a bit hurt and I was actually hurt.

I was hurt and I dont know why I self sabotaged like that. Then I took a deep breath closed my eyes.

I distracted myself with other things and didn't think about her one bit. All I know is she kept pursuing me in a time in my life when women and sex were for some reason not on my mind. It hard to describe but maybe you've experienced this but I was thinking a lot about a friend from highschool who passed away suddenly, and just like that I was in no mood to think about the feeling of a woman.

It was at this precise time that the floodgates opened and a bunch of women started messaging me out of the blue and literally obsessing over me

Moral of the story is that things will come to you when you are at the lowest amount of feeling for it.