Push and Pull strategy

norwegiandoggo · 2020-10-24T06:49:03+00:00

You don't need to read a big text on this. I can explain it to you simply as it's really simple. Push-pull can be used in two ways:

1) As playful flirting. Often it's giving a compliment that's too much, and then pulling back with a funny twist. It's light teasing basically.

Example: "That t-shirt looks so good on you! (Push). My mom has the same shirt! (Pull)"

2) During physical escalation. Give her a hug. Back off. Hold her hand. Back off. Kiss her cheek. Back off. Kiss. End the kiss first and back off.

The way you describe it in the post is that your pull is doing nothing. That's not push-pull. That's push - nothing. Which doesn't work. Both push and pull have to be active.. to stop talking to a girl is not pull. That's neglect and will likely lead to a budding connection going cold and stale. She may assume you're not interested and may start focusing on other guys.

Yamatoman9 · 2020-10-24T09:52:49+00:00

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depression_quirk · 2020-10-25T15:26:06+00:00

Lmaooooo you know women with any type of self respect isn't going to fall for this. If you neg me or fall back out of nowhere after lots of contact, I'm either gonna drop you completely or go out on dates with other dudes and if you do pop up again you are at the bottom of my priority list in favor of men who are consistent.

revente · 2020-10-24T07:25:56+00:00

Just be playful with her feelings, sometimes be sweet, sometimes harsh, sometimes commanding and sometimes goofy. Don’t be afraid to set boundaries when she’s rude or full of herself, but also don’t be afraid to give her compliment when she’s sweet.

You’re trying to figue this in the wrong way.

Title	Push and Pull strategy
Author	littboi699
Upvotes	18
Comments	9
Date	October 24, 2020 4:18 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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