Some of my friends get messages from girls which i find to be quite rare. They have good photos on their profiles. I have had quite some failed attempts in real life. I wonder if everyone is getting too dependent on social media which I was ignorant of posting on, my whole life. But also, posting on social media to get female attention also feels kind of desperate/self loathing even to myself. Even though in real life, trying to flirt with someone seems normal to me. Maybe because that shows some integrity. what do you think/do guys?