Okay where to begin... Dating and PickUp.

I want to make this brief and clear so people who may read this may come away with something...

There are NO guarantees in dating/PU especially when people force feed advice to get that ‘special’ someone. As Jean Luc Picard would say: “It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness - that is life.

We keep telling people on this forum that because they haven’t done something particularly ‘sexy’ that we destroy ones pursuit of companionship because they have texted one to many times. Granted, there are habits that definitely improve dating success however my point is: They are NOT rules, they are GUIDELINES.

It’s impossible to stress because when certain people are constantly reminded of what they’re not doing - it’s already making it far more difficult than it needs to be.

Let me be clear - to anyone who thinks it’s okay to bust out his favourite Yugi-oh card in a packed Ibiza nightclub - it’s pretty easy to see where that’s going wrong..

However when people say if you don’t follow Mark Manson, RSD, Simple PU to the letter - you won’t get the girl, it’s nowhere near as transactional as that. Gurus are great but their not gods.

Yes if you have text 2 days later than her or if your ignore her in a certain way or you may build some attraction there (which I’m saying is not not recommended) however we need to quit this transactional bullshit and let people make mistakes so they’re more emboldened to date people that they deserve to date.