What's your story of going 0 to 100 in womanizing?

ShyDatingftw · 2020-11-01T16:33:39+00:00

I’d say I’ve come a long way from my own perspective anyways. I’m not out here trying to have 30 girls to fuck for every night of the month or anything. I couldn’t if I wanted to.

The first time I saw a big result was by accident. There was a girl I worked with who had a crush on me. She was fat ugly and her breath smelled like literal shit. So don’t think anything special when I say a girl had a crush on me lol.

Anyways, me and this girl got along. I was just trying to be nice to her. And also I was struggling with girls like hell. This girl had a crush on me and she wouldn’t leave me alone really. But I was nice to her and all that because I’m always nice to people.

So me and this girl had a strange relationship. She was constantly harassing me. We worked together, and at some point I literally had to report her for sexual harassment. It was like that. But I didn’t want her to be fired or anything I just wanted her to leave me alone.

So one day I ended up saying something mean to her, and the other girls I worked with heard it. The other girls I worked with were all hot. All these girls have guys buzzing around them like flies on shit. And all of these girls pretty much treated me like I was a creepy weirdo.

Anyways I ended up saying something mean to the ugly fat girl, and that day I became instantly famous with the rest of the girls at work. For the rest of the day they all loved me and they all were giving me hella attention.

Well, I didn’t continue being mean to the gross girl with shit breath, because I’m not a mean person, but I saw very clearly how the hot girls reacted. They loved it.

From that point on I began testing the waters I suppose. Normally I would be terrified to say much of anything around any girls. But I started saying small things here and there. “Savage” things as the kids might say it. Though I started off pretty tame.

Basically the more “savage” things I said, the more the girls around me paid attention to me and wanted to interact with me. The less they treated me like a creepy weirdo and the more they wanted to talk to me and stand close to me and touch me and make jokes with me.

Basically, act like a self entitled asshole who thinks he’s king of the world, and females will love you. That is the lesson I learned over time. Testing more and more and more and it got to the point where I could just say the worst shit, the most arrogant pompous bullshit like I was gods gift to humanity, and the girls would be like “I fucking love you!” And hug me and shit.

And I was hugging mad girls, they were flirting with me and so I learned how to flirt because of them flirting with me.

After some period of experimentation with the girls and being “savage” I stopped cold turkey. I saw what it takes to make women love you and it disgusted me. I just stopped one day and just like I turned off a light switch, they stopped paying attention to me. They started treating me like I was a creepy weirdo again. They started avoiding me again.

After that, I began trying to just be myself 100% and more expressive in my own natural way rather than the way I was acting while testing things out with the girls.

I’m not as popular nor do I get as good of a reaction from the girls being myself, as I did being a “savage” but I prefer to not be an asshole. Now I really just try to be myself and not so scared to express myself. It’s been pretty good. Much better than when I was shy as hell for sure. I still get hugs and stuff, I still do a bit of flirting, so I did learn a bit from the experiment. But it’s not so crazy now that I’m just trying hard to discover myself and be myself and express myself as I really am.

Sometimes I will still act like I’m a pompous arrogant asshole. But it’s all me joking rather than me experimenting. I always say it in a way that they know it’s all a joke and not me literally believing I’m something special. And that works pretty well too. I can be myself and act crazy sometimes but that’s just me. I like to act wild every now and then and I have a sick dark sense of humor. The girls really like the dark sense of humor. I can really say some sick disturbing shit and they love it. So that’s me being me and seeing good responses from girls.

But at the end of the day I’m still shy and I still suffer from a ton of social anxiety. I literally just began CBT in therapy last week. So hopefully I’ll get help with that. It’s quite an effort to express myself around people and not just clam up into a shell and keep everyone out.

Aaaaaand that’s my story.

ItsSYZYGY · 2020-11-01T17:34:53+00:00

By your replies I can feel how anxious you are about getting results. That desperation will not get you anywhere buddy. You are trying to fake it, that's why it's not working

Taken25042 · 2020-11-01T19:16:35+00:00

While there are exceptions I don’t think you’ll find many “overnight success” stories because that’s just not how reality works.

“It took me 17 years to become an overnight success” // Lionel Messi

It’s a continuous progress, and the sooner you start the better. I started when I was 17, and by the time I was 19 I had a reputation for bringing home girls. That’s still 2 years of failures and rejections, but I’d call it a very fast development. Now at 28, it’s barely even a challenge anymore.

Stop trying to find the shortcut. You’ll spend 10x as much time finding the fast way as you would have needed if you just got started now instead

pua_max · 2020-11-01T16:00:09+00:00

I’m not at 100 yet, but I’m pretty decent. I can cold approach, sometimes get rotations, and lead social circles. It took 4 years of practice and reflection and reading.

DennyBenny · 2020-11-02T12:39:10+00:00

Which time? It happened twice in my life, once when at age 23 I met a beautiful woman and we clicked in bed, got engaged but it became clear she and I had life goals that would likely cause issues. The sex was great, but she broke it off wisely and we stayed friends for awhile but then I ended that since it is hard to stay friends with a former lover.

I went through 1-2 years of drought, I self medicated and thought life was over with women. Once I became comfortable with myself again, the flood gates opened and I was dating 4 ladies. Then my wife picked me up in a bar and we clicked and 37 years later still together.

Hegemon1984 · 2020-11-02T20:55:05+00:00

Work. Lots of hard work.

The process of becoming terrible with women -> decent -> good is a long (and painful) journey within itself. No amount of inspiration or motivation will push you in the long run. There were many times I've gone out and day gamed even when I didn't want to. It's a grind, my friend, and will take months to start seeing results.

This may be unpopular, but I personally believe a man is truly ready for success when he's gone through enough suffering in his life (with anything, including women) that he's unable to bear to pain of doing nothing any longer

Title	What's your story of going 0 to 100 in womanizing?
Author	Taken25042
Upvotes	13
Comments	45
Date	November 1, 2020 3:39 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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