It just doesn't work for me

2020-11-06T00:45:16+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:

How do I approach?
How do I get a number?
How do I talk to girls at college?
How/When do I kiss a girl?
Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

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Floloppi · 2020-11-05T19:29:51+00:00

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BensonInFL · 2020-11-05T19:53:15+00:00

Congrats on making it this far, and also on figuring out your sticking points. Prior to the last 3 months, did all of the girls run away after kissing them? If so, perhaps it is your technique, or your follow-up afterwards, or the lead-up.. i.e. the kiss was very unexpected...

Usually when I kiss a girl, I try to do a light kiss at first, and employ some of these things... i break away, and then stare at her eyes, and go back for a deeper kiss.. I break away and do eskimo kiss..look into her eyes and give a devilish smile.., and then go back... after getting into french kissing, I grab the back of their head or hair and pull on it, I take my palm and caress it against her face, I gently stroke and/or massage her neck or rub my hand up and down it... after intense french kissing, I pull away and start kissing their ear lobe, or kiss their neck and then go back... at this point.. while kissing, I start light petting .... arms, elbow, legs, inner thigh... etc...

-B

cottagecorehoe · 2020-11-05T19:39:41+00:00

Maybe they were just looking for a hook up or you weren't their type, but regardless, you managed to get them to go out with you and you successfully built enough chemistry/tension and kissed them (and I'm guessing they didn't pull away). That likely means you did something right.

You're not going to be everyone's type, but I'd look at these experiences with the glass half full perspective; you did good, keep going.

9MaxR9 · 2020-11-05T19:05:44+00:00

The fact that you kissed them isn’t a real failure. It’s actually a half win and you should see it like that. Keep trying.

TheDevilPutD · 2020-11-05T19:08:09+00:00

Where do you kiss them? Outside, back at your place? I wouldn't kiss until I am back at my place. It progresses from kissing to sex much easier.

Maybe you are too hungry and eager. Maybe jerknoff a couple of times before you go on a date.

Pm_MeyourManBoobs · 2020-11-05T19:10:51+00:00

Don't put so much pressure on yourself. Go out and have a good time. What does quitting look like to you?

tibles20 · 2020-11-05T19:16:35+00:00

Yeah I think they want to be your friend not more than that

Title	It just doesn't work for me
Author	areddituzer
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	November 5, 2020 7:02 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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