Thoughts on Attitude?

TheDevilPutD · 2020-11-07T22:33:12+00:00

Yes they are correct. They all love the bad boy. But first you need to feel good about yourself. Start by writing down all the things you like about yourself or that are good about you objectively. Write a letter of recommendation for yourself as if a 3rd party was writing it. The only rule is to include only positives and nothing negative. Even small things, like "jxdewey gets out of bed every morning and he always brushes his teeth, takes a shower, washes his ass and uses deodorant."

Most people have way more accomplishments to be proud of than they give themselves credit for. Do you have a job, your own place? You are already ahead of most guys. You just need to realize it.

But to really develop the bad boy attitude, you need to get in touch with your bad side, your dirty and kinky side. Everyone has one, but nice guys just repress it because they think it will offends others especially women, when in fact it's the bad side that really excites them. Write a list of all your flaws, kinks, dark fantasies, taboos, etc. get it out in the open. To push it further, pick one thing from that list that you always wanted to do and go do it as long as it won't hurt anyone and won't land you in jail (getting a fine is ok). Wanna piss on the street or on your annoying neighbors car? Wanna drink a beer in public in a brown bag? Wanna tell someone off? Go and do it. Embrace your bad boy side. Then approach women with that attitude.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2020-11-08T06:52:06+00:00

People get it wrong when it comes to the “bad boy”. Yes women love what people consider bad boys. But it’s the confidence, and high self esteem that they have that gets bad boys laid, rather than the “i’m gonna do criminal shit, or insults everybody”...

The attitude is basically conveyed trough your body language and what you say.

For example let’s say that a woman gives you a compliment like: You look good”

A good boy might say:

“thanks” or “you think so?”

a bad boy would perhaps say:

“tell me something new” or “i know”

This sometimes sounds arrogant or cocky, but this type of attitude is closer to what gets women like bad guys than anything else.

More often than not, they say stuff like that just to provoke girls and get a reaction from them, not because they really are that arrogant.

This shows confidence also. Bad boys just are sure of themselves, they don’t over explain themselves, or say sorry or justify their behaviour, they don’t care if the girls they like think well or bad of them.

If the girl accuses the bad boy telling him:

“you are arrogant asshole”

The bad boys would probably say: “so that’s why i make you so crazy” or “so that’s why I turn you on so much”

They don’t care, they don’t apologise for who they are, they don’t care what the girl thinks, even if he likes the girls he still doesn’t give a fuck because he knows he can meet new girls that he also likes, so if he loses one girl so be it, her loss in his mind actually.

He also doesn’t hide his interest in her, unlike the nice guy he is direct from the beginning, by direct i mean that from the beginning he makes it clear that he finds her sexy and attractive.

He doesn’t confess love or anything like that, mostly because he doesn’t fall in love easily specially when he hasn’t even have had sex with the girl first.

He just likes her as a sexy girl he wants to fuck for now, nothing more. And trough his flirting he talks in a way that the girl knows what’s up, that she is being hit on.

The nice guy however becomes friends first, hides his intentions, and starts acting like real good friendly nice guy, who does friendly things with her for months before finally revealing what his intentions were, and of course the girl is just like “sorry i see you as a friend”...

that shit never happens to a bad guy.

A bad guy just isn’t a guy a girl can be friends with, either she likes him or she never wants to hear from him again.

atomant88 · 2020-11-09T09:49:38+00:00

very true. im not attractive. but ive been told i have 'big dick energy' lol and im consistently surprised at the women who are into me just based on my being very outgoing and forward with them

as far as being a 'bad boy'. thats not my vibe at all. im very nice and sweet and attentive. but some girls want 'Superman' instead of 'the Punisher' right? just like some people prefer vanilla to chocolate. it just needs to be GOOD vanilla

Title	Thoughts on Attitude?
Author	jxdewey
Upvotes	6
Comments	4
Date	November 7, 2020 9:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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