Gym approaches?

2020-11-12T01:39:50+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:

How do I approach?
How do I get a number?
How do I talk to girls at college?
How/When do I kiss a girl?
Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

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PayDrum · 2020-11-11T22:57:40+00:00

I'm not the type who would approach at the gym, but if you absolutely want to, I would suggest going for the girls that are usually there at the same time as you, and instead of going for a classic approach, trying to build some kind of acquaintance with them first. Perhaps start with a casual nod or simple hi, and later perhaps make a comment about the music when you get a chance or some other small thing. Once you get some recognition going, you can escalate to talking further and seeing how it goes.

IMO, doing direct approaches in a gym are a bad idea because its usually not a social setting so girls are not there to get hit on, and a lot of them don't even bother with make up. And also a lot of people are not in the best mood and just want to do their work out and go home so you might get rejected pretty badly and ruin your own day.

FloridaManPA · 2020-11-11T23:03:26+00:00

Following. I also think about this. Definitely don’t stare but if you do make eye contact and hold it for a second or other IOIs maybe we get their names. Say hi a few times. Then leave at the same time and do a more direct approach as you walking out. Thoughts?

mikey82982 · 2020-11-11T23:29:28+00:00

Most girls in gym’s give false IOI’s just for attention.

STD_Tyler · 2020-11-12T00:55:36+00:00

Yes, don't go for direct openers. Just approach her, are you using this machine? Maybe talk about the machine, her workout routine, gym memberships, PT sessions..etc, Just friendly talk then ask for instagram. No need to sexualize anything...

2020-11-12T01:03:36+00:00

I usually ask the girl if this gym has scales, from this you start off.

Title	Gym approaches?
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Date	November 11, 2020 10:38 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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