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[–][deleted] [score hidden] 5 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
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[–]Dodechaedron 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Build rapport, touch (the hand, the forearm); if she responds positively (body language, smiles) go for the kiss
[–]Juan_Water 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This right here, i’ll discard the kiss on second date but if it happens it happens
[–]Zcuzz 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Kino escalation
[–]ajejejebrazocrew 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok let’s apply it to my situation. We’re having sushi in my house garden. I may have been too clingy via text how do I repair it and escalate
[–]LittlePandas101 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Focus on your subcoms. Eye contact, talk slowly, be relaxed. Feel the sexual tension build and then just go for it.
Offcourse there are lots more principles behind this, but since you have little game this is the best advice imo for you. If I could say something to the beginner me, it would be this.
[–]ajejejebrazocrew 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
subcoms?
[–]LittlePandas101 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sub communication
[–]ajejejebrazocrew 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Care to explain. English is not my first language i may know the concept but not what you mean
[–]LittlePandas101 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ofcourse! Subcoms are everything you communicate to others except for words. Body language, tonality, etc. Having good subcoms (strong eye contact, talk slowly, etc.) really help with escalation. If done correctly it builds really high sexual tension.
Sheesh i talk fast af😂
[–]j2swole1 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
this question is missing a lot of context so it is very difficult to answer. respond back to these questions and i will make sure to shoot you an answer.
how long have you known her and what is the context of your relationship/friendship?
where was the first date and how did it go?
have you kissed her?
where do plan to go on the second date?
those questions are just starters and still not sufficient enough to give a perfect answer but if you respond to those i will be able to help much more
I matched on tinder. She told me she had noticed me years ago on a bus. The first date was in a neighborhing city but we couldn’t do much because of the restrictions (no restaurants or anything) it went alright and apart from some awkward moments we had a good time. It didn’t felt right to kiss her ( but i may be oblivious) We’re having sushi outside my place, there’s a huge veranda and it has the right mood
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