• I'm reaching out to get some help in terms of understanding how most of you manage your schedule around plates without losing it's momentum and progress, but more importantly at the same time without it sacrificing your own personal time.

I'm in my 30's and work full time, hit the gym 6x a week and try to keep an overall busy schedule. I have only maybe 3 days to dedicate to hanging out with people. What happens is sometimes I match with woman online all at once, and I find myself juggling meeting them around the weekend when I'm free.

The first date isn't too bad because I can push it out 1 to 2 weeks later no rush and it looks good, but as I meet woman and I progress further into 2nd dates, and 3rd dates I find that I need to keep seeing them often to keep the sexual energy between us alive but then I have to make time for other woman too. I don't want to miss an opportunity. So then whole thing becomes a nightmare. I'm spending weekdays at work trying to schedule everyone in and figure shit out. I'm also finding myself getting burnt out.

  • Am I going about this the wrong way?

I get the idea of being busy, and having your own thing (and I have plenty of that) but I'm afraid that if I am progressing with a woman on a 2nd or 3rd date, and I've invested so much into her on these dates that if I skip a week or two from seeing her that the energy between us might fizzle out. Am I wrong about this?

What is the best way in terms of meeting woman without feeling like you're sacrificing your schedule.