Girl told me she'd need a relationship to "be a little toxic" to get into one...

2020-11-24T17:05:59+00:00

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2020-11-24T17:00:35+00:00

That's one of the single most visible red flags I've ever seen. Move on. A little toxic means she wants an asshole.

docent3434 · 2020-11-24T16:55:00+00:00

If she said she needs "a bit of pussy" in her next relationship, would you consider being one?

All said.

Minephucked · 2020-11-24T16:59:21+00:00

You need to look up what are defined as toxic traits and be aware of them. Maybe she already has some and is trying to tell you without giving the specifics. Things like: I get really jealous, i’m very clingy, i take but never give, i often guilt trip people. Those are things that can make a lot of people run for the hills. Or maybe she even likes a guy that displays though because shes insecure? Likes a clingy guy or something...Just ask her to elaborate.

KingRemu · 2020-11-24T17:07:26+00:00

If it's actual toxicity that she wants then stay the hell away. On the other hand she could mean that she likes it a bit rough, to be dominated like you said.

I'm not saying beat her up lol but a little hair pulling and holding her down in the bedroom is something many girls actually like. The majority I've been with things like that actually made them super horny. But I guess you guys aren't that far yet.

You don't have to be rough or toxic. Just try to be assertive. Lead her.

Title	Girl told me she'd need a relationship to "be a little toxic" to get into one...
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Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	November 24, 2020 4:45 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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